do not want to get pregnant

There ARE no "most fertile" days if you're not even ovulating. You can't even technically count the first day of your period because it's not even a real period--it's artificially induced. If you kept taking the pill the week of your sugar pills, you wouldn't necessarily bleed at all. This is how some women go up to year without a period, though it's usually with a monocyclic pill.

Anyway, PLEASE STOP WORRYING!!!!!!! You are already doing everything humanly possible to not get pregnant, short of abstinence. At this point, if you still got pregnant it would be an act of God. (Might want to stay away from God, just in case).

For what it's worth, you technically have a 3 hour window to take the pill everyday for it to count as the same time. Even in the hospital, we have an hour's window to give "9:00 meds." You could give them between 8:30-9:30 and they would still be on time. No med is going to be that unforgiving, or it wouldn't be nearly as effective.

You're NOT going to get pregnant. And stop reading horror stories--most of those women didn't use the pill right, and I've used different brands of condoms for a whole year and can honestly say I don't see how in the hell people say they "tear." I don't even see how they can fall off unless the guy's extremely small.

Oh, and if it helps, I'm a nurse.

 

Because my wife had side effects with the pill several years ago, we both agreed & compromised that I used condoms during sex since then - 24 yrs ago. We decided that 2 kids were enough as a family & that it was my turn to take the precautions instead. Yes, I still would prefer sex without condoms ( sensation wise) but sometimes you have to make a decision you both agree mainly on?

 

Lena, how did it go? Did you atleast enjoy the sex???

 

You should have givn him a BJ. He would have been very happy.

 

hey all thanks guys for the responses! so turns out we did it. it wasnt trashy... he brought condoms, lube, me dinner, snacks and a blanket for us. it was really relaxed and he didnt pressure me. did it 2 hours after being alone in my jeep. it was getting hard to in our houses since people are always home so we agreed to my jeep.. all my worrying and im not in pain at all.. it just felt good hardly any pain. when i got home i felt ever so bit of cramps a littleee but nothing major thanks for your response
and yes we used a condom and im on tri cyclen lo .. when he pulled out i felt wetness and thought the condom leaked but it was all in the condom.. it was just my natural luburant and the lube from the condom, i hope.. but he showed me it was all secure in the condom and he pulled out just before he cam. and im supost to get my period tuesday and he wants to again before that.
ps he used trogan medium and to me it looked a little big but at the base it fit him snug and he was saying thats what important and there needs to be room at tip for cum which i know but while the base was tight i felt the sides kind of where too and he said oh dont worry i'll hold it and was fine but is this ok or should he get a smaller one?

 

Umm idk about the sizing thing, to answer that question I need a picture. But honestly I think your fine, and take some sexual personal pride that you liked it and the wetness you felt was your own. If I were your bf that would stroked my ego right there.

You could always measure him both length and girth wise (you'd need a waist measurer for girth, which is the circumference around the thickest part of his penis ) for best accurate measurements for a condom size.

6 inches in length and 4.5-5.5 in girth is the average. And yes your man obviously paid attention in health class, because he is completely correct in having the tip of the condom flat with space available to receive the ejaculate.

 

this makes me facepalm

 

Best way to avoid pregnancy is with a $1 bill.


Held between your knees.....

 

You are being very very paranoid! You are not pregnant, nor will you be if you use a condom and take the pill.

Love and light, lady.

 

we've actually done it a few times now and im hardly worried now. we use trogan and i can see that sperm isnt getting out and they are fitting properly. so all good now im actually thinking i want to get off this b/c cause the condoms seem so reliable and i dont want all these hormones in my body for so long, its already been half a year.