Do women always like getting looked at

I saw this really cute burn victim once, and I didn't know what to do. My most common form of flirting at the time, as a shy teenager, was to gawk at a female and glance away when they noticed.

And when I looked at her, I could completely see her without the puss-y wounds, and she looked so sad, but somehow I could tell she had a beautiful smile. But I didn't want to look really, because I assumed she got way too many people staring at the fucked up half of her face and making her feel self-conscious.

I was a teller at the time, and I was hoping she would come to my line so I could toss a big smile at her, but she didn't =P

Injuries aren't passed down to children.

 

This is true. Too bad so many people want to have children.

 

I bet people with such scars have the most divine out of body experiences (if they happen to use drugs). You'd come back and just think, "Ah, fuck it. Who cares what my face looks like."

Social standards are bullshit. If anything more people should go out of their way to make a mockery of them. Wear a roadcone on your goddamn head and call it fashion.

 

OMG That's a huge rant for me on so many levels. Another day....

Though, it matters not what your aesthetic gifts are or aren't, you still have the same hormones as everyone else that tell you to go off and procreate. When it comes to the people doing the staring, it's usually the less attractive people being called perverts and the better looking ones are just checking someone out.

 

This is exactly what I meant by "inconsistency."

 

Ah check.

My younger brother is an oxymoron in that he's a really good looking guy in a wheelchair who is a total perv!

Basically, if he weren't in the chair he'd have the hot wife, 2.5 kids and all that shit. But, instead he is alone and considered a perv because he likes to look at beautiful women.

 

Yet a woman who likes to look at attractive men has a "healthy libido." Thanks media.

 

The sick part is that we ask for the media to do this to us by responding to the shit they throw at us. We're all a bunch of narcissistic pervs because we eat it up and spit it out at each other.

 

Yes! I've never heard anyone admit that but it's true! We're all vain, narcissistic hypocrites. I was thinking about this half an hour ago; subliminally even the way we word the description of another, "good looking, ugly, pretty, attractive, unattractive," but to what standard are we using those adjectives?

I can say, "Usually women who are attractive are also vain," but by saying so I've already shown my own inconsistency and hypocrisy by indirectly admitting to the attractiveness of a woman whom I would consider vain.

Perhaps one feels inadequate because another is more attractive, in doing so they've already displayed their own form of vanity.

One is not, "better looking than, uglier than, more attractive than, less attractive than," people are just different, not better or worse than.

What vain bastards we all are!

 

No I hate it!
When I see a male look at me esp an older one, I look at them back and not nicely... and they still look at me while I give the fuck off look. WTF!!!

I hate it how some men try to pick up women these days; honk, yelling from your car is not attractive, hitting me up the bus stop is retarded... Cant I just go anywhere w/o any of the fucking attention. I feel bad for some girls who just need to go to work or school or catch a bus and some fuck will try to pick them up.

 

So eyeball fucking is bad. Ok so we got that established.

Could you all elaborate what a good and welcomed look would look like?
I would mostly assume eye contact and smirks/smiles. (As they've always worked better for me in the past)

 

It doesn't bother me. I don't get why everyone goes "hell no" etc.
I'd be extremely flattered to see someone that looks interested in me, even if he isn't the best looking. It's kind of like a compliment.
Maybe I'm just weird.

 

You're not weird-and I feel exactly the same way.

 

more than a few seconds? Jeez! That's a bit of tight time frame isn't it?

 

I'm a red head and I get gawked at all the time...it drives me crazy! I don't mind that people look, but I don't like it when I am gawked at.

 

that reminds me of when i was at school. For some reason I wasn't in class and the school door was locked so I was sat on the step until a teacher came along and a girls Physical education classs came out and started doing exercises on the playground. The only way I could avoid not seeing a girls bum was to stand up and face the door. Lorraine Morton told me later 'we saw you looking at our bums'.

 

How ironic a stripper who doesn't like being stared at.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

Its like that cos you girls all train them that way.

"Why cant he just like me for me? (look you in the eye or face, not the body)" The guys end up working out that if they are like that they'll always shoot straight to the friends zone and be the guy they whine to about the bad boy boyfriend that perved at you from the start.

You take the action of perving at you at face value, just in that moment, and its wrong, but it gets you angry, and if you are stuck knowing them for a while the angry turns to horny

And there's no use complaining about older guys doing it, unfortunately there are two many girls with daddy issues, if not you yourself. And thats the opposite of what it looks like, if the Straight ones do it, angry look back is good, angry will eventually turn to horny, but if she beams a look back in the same way their daughter does, they know its a fair chance they look like that girls father - ick.

And its one of the reason girls gaydars suck so bad, cos we do it too. Leer and I get the angry look back: Ok, bye bye now, but if she beams back full strength, got to meet the dad, cos fair chance the dads going to be haaawwwtt!

 

Being a guy with a long-term girlfriend, I want to kill everyone of these mother fuckers, and am right with you on this one.

But this comes off as ignorant of male psychology, sociology, and extremely mean.

 

no, this is actually how ghetto people pick up women unfortunately.

more unfortunate is the fact that it must at least sometimes work.