Do women who enjoy anal just have a higher sex drive?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Steve-Zap1430, Mar 11, 2014.

  1. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    I don't disapprove of others doing it, I said it's weird in my mind and not a natural act to do, in my mind,,, try it for myself? Na, why? Just like if you were asking me to try some kind of drug,,, not my bag, if it was yours then have at er,,, or suggesting I go with women,,, na not my bag either but I don't dis gay people for it, it's just not natural IMO and some will agree and some will disagree. To each their own in their bedroom but I do have a lot of gay friends and I love them as my friends, one lady is my best friend, they know my stand on it and we get each other, they think I am weird for wanting a man in my life, it's all good but I won't TRY it for myself... Why would I? It's not my bag either.
    Meanwhile this conversation isnt about me and my thoughts on anal, it is to ask if women who do anal have more sex drive,,, nope! Probably not any higher then my sex drive. I can have sex every day, sometimes twice a day and if BF wasn't a workin man with long hours I'd have him at it every day. He knows it and is trying to change his work plan and go back into office so he will have regular hours. He'll never get IN my ass tho and he doesn't care for it anyway, I checked. He is a V man but he likes a lot of different things about sex that I like, and visa versa, isn't that what's important?
     
  2. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    And to this,,, "no sane women would have any reason to do so"?
    If you asked me about anal sex I would say yes, as soon as you buy a strap on of your choosing, size, color and all that I would be quite willing to stick it on and give you a go and yes I am sane, and open minded,,, I would not say not to anal sex if you wanted it in yer butt :2thumbsup:
     
  3. -CT-

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    And your problem is?

    If my posts suggest to you that I lack experience, you must have some major difficulties with reading and/or comprehension.


    You have a terrible, moody, loud-and-foul-mouthed personality (or "humorous" in your own words..), which can in no way be classified as sane. My quote does not go against anything I've said, because no woman with no mental issues wants to fuck a man with a strap-on in order to find a "power". There is no need for such "open-mindedness" on my part, and you can try to use it against me but remember that it's not an insult to me, or I wouldn't have willingly pointed it out.

    I'm ending this discussion here. Have fun with the circle-jerk of white knights patting you girls on the back!
     
  4. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


    You hate everybody who disagrees with you,,,, hahahaha
     
  5. NextEvolution

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    CT, I've seen sally on 2 threads now and on both she draws completely illogical conclusions on the writings of others as well as a strong anti-male sentiment. I'm beginning to think she is a bitter feminist trolling guys.
     
  6. RandomVegan

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    1 ) no you did not, you said those who will are hornier than those who won't

    B ) no, in fact omnivores and carnivores have been quite heinous to me when they as k why I am not eating and I jsut say "it is because I am vegan" - they start getting really snarky and nasty with quotes like "vegan is Navaho for bad hunter" - I never tell anyone how to have their diet unless asked, I never judge people on their oorientation/gender/romantic attraction. I am the MOST open minded person towards others you can possibly meet. I only limit my own life by my own scruples. You are the one saying I am a prude or "repressed" for not liking what you want to do - and YES , I have done it.
     
  7. -CT-

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    Riiight, I'm sorry I forgot you have no problem with anyone who disagrees with you; you're just "joking around". Is that what you tell yourself?

    Try to have a discussion with someone who ignores everything meaningful you have tried to say, and replies along the lines of "hahaha go shove something up yer own ass,,,, hey look I'm funny because I can type a sequence of commas in random places,,,,"
     
  8. scarlet532

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    Exactly...
     
  9. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    Anti male? Really? Otta read more of my stuff then, I am all about female to male connection and great love connections, I just don't like when someone, anyone, male or female tries to push their ways on me. I have no problem if you do what you do but don't push it on others and a few here are, read back.
    Meanwhile I am all about men and women treating each other as partners in sex and relationships, that's not feminist, that's love on a shared level between two people, its healthy and it's not new,,,
    Bitter? Na, just how you read "two" threads I have been on,,, open your mind, and read on a little further. I have a great sex life now and have in the past with men I have been with, if you want to assume I haven't then fill your boots, it's your passion you must fill, not mine.
    Now if I remember right this was not about me, or hating men, it's asking """"do women who do anal have more sex drive?"""" and my comment which fired a whole lot of confusion here was anal has little to do with having an open mind as was stated by CT. Start a thread about anal itself and I probably will not be there because it gives little interest to me. Start one asking if those who do anal are more into sex, are the only ones with an open mind, are sexier then then those who won't, are smarter then those who won't, have longer legs then those who won't,,, and I will be all over that because people with more sex drive have lots of interests way beyond anal or separate from anal that will have nothing to do with anal. There, I spelt it out a whole new way and maybe you will get it,,, and maybe not. But seriously, anal has little to do with hating or liking men either,,, I said I don't do anal,,, I dare anyone here to find where I said I don't do men, have great relationships and enjoy my sex with them, well one at a time that is,,, I am a one man women ya know.
    I think a few here got their feeling hurt over words and those few need to toughen up a bit. No one is calling you down for doing anal, they are saying they don't do it and you shouldn't push it and again this isn't about preaching or teaching it which it seems to have become.
     
  10. NextEvolution

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    You say "I have no problem if... you don't push it on others" but then you try to press your world view of what relationships should be like on everyone else... even going so far as to call women "useless" and men worse if they didn't live by your ideals in the other thread. And BTW, your continual attempts at emasculative terminology ("feeling hurt" "toughen up" in your last response for example) doesn't work on anyone beyond showing where you are coming from.

    As for the original topic, on average, women who do anal 1) have a higher sex drive, 2) are more open minded, and 3) care more about pleasing their partners. Every guy who has experience knows these trends and that they are just that... generalized trends like what the OP was asking for. The original question wasn't "do all women who do anal have a higher sex drive than sallysmart?"
     
  11. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    And yet I never said that but you think it, I said to CT---- those who do anal sex are not the only ones with an open mind. Read back, prove me wrong. After that it became a battle over who should participate in anal sex,,,
    Thank you,,, I am here all week ;)
     
  12. NextEvolution

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    You stated your own high sex drive and aversion to anal as if refuting someone else's claim, yet no one claimed "everyone with a high sex drive enjoys anal" making your statement meaningless to the discussion and you wrong by implication. As for the "battle" over who should participate in anal... there's not one going on except in your mind. You seem to think that because you meet some of the prerequisites, that the prerequisites are flawed or require you to do anal but as CT previously pointed out, you fail at logic. Saying that open-mindedness is a prerequisite for something does not mean that everyone who is open-minded would do that thing. For instance, you must be 18+ to vote in the US, but not everyone who is 18+ votes. Since CT already explained this to you and you are incapable of addressing your obvious logical contradictions and hypocrisy in my previous post where you are clearly telling others how they should or shouldn't act in relationships, you're either in denial of your lack of intelligence or trolling.
     
  13. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    What's going on is I am saying compatibility is key for any kind of sex rather then pushing one partner the other one's way. I also said to CT that open mindedness isn't about anal sex, But, this thread isn't about those topics so we should get back on topic so others don't get mad at us, K,,,
    And calling out lack of intelligence to those who don't agree with you doesn't cover it. That's an old tactic and shows anger and loss on your part, I am quite intelligent and I do well in life and always have so let's not worry about me.
     
  14. pipgirl

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    I was reading the thread and I was going to write sth very similar but now I don't have to :2thumbsup:
     
  15. dwight78

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    I would say she's sufficiently interested in sexual matters to want to experiment with anal in the first place. I would support the assumption
     

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