One of my friends says that sucking dick is a form of sex but not really sexy BUT that if she doesn't do it very often she misses it. She likes having the man lose it while she sucks and she frequently thinks of sucking when she meets new people, wondering what it would be like to suck their cock. Her line is always "I want to find out what's in his pants!"
I find it interesting how many women do actually enjoy it. If I was a guessing man…, perhaps it’s one of the moments were a women feels she is able to take sexual control and be in control. Either consciously or subconsciously. Us Neanderthals are so lost in pleasure and abandon we release all our alpha male dominance to the pleasures of the moment. Obviously that’s not alway true as guys can be pretty aggressive when getting head as well and I know of women who find that a turn on as well and many who don’t… so maybe I’m just talking out my ass here. But hear me out. I’ve only sucked a dick when I was young but the person was much larger than me in every way, was always the dominant one in our friendship, but when I had him by the dick there was a powerful feeling to that. I felt I now controlled him in many ways.