Do you find things get awkward with dudes post-gay?

Wow, I find that pretty appalling. I mean, who do you people think you are? Who gave you the right to make that kind of decision about someone else's life?

Do you not have even the slightest memory of what it was like to be in the closet and terrified of the world? Or even if you never gave a damn can't you empathize with what it would be like?

Think of how it must feel to fear exposure from both sides - who do you turn to then?? Who do you confide in?

I'm out to everyone I know (family, friends... basically my entire campus cuz its so small you know everyone). I vigorously encourage everyone to openly express their sexual preferences. But you guys are helping repress them.

Maybe I'm being harsh but I've seen the awful consequences of your actions. You don't want others butting in to your life do you? Please don't be a hypocrite.

 

+1

 

Actually the only closets that really bug the **** out of me are the ones that you know for certain are gay or bi and at the same time in front of other people are homophobic and totally discriminating towards you for being out.

It really does boil my blood sometimes and i do find it hard to keep my opinions to myself but i still manage to (although if i ever get a chance to speak to the fecker on my own he will hear my opinions )

 

I am sorry if I was unclear in what I said. It is not like I am out hunting
bi or gay guys that are closeted. Hooking up with them then telling everyone I know. Outing
to me is what my first boyfriend/ love did. I do not hide my sexuality, I am
very confident and caring. So men and women come to to me. I listen
offer them someone to come out to and don't judge. And in doing so give them the confidence to come out.
That is outing to me. Granted I prefer everyone is open and honesty about who they are that is the only way to tear down the walls of prejudiced.
I will be more clear next time.. I remember being in the closet.