Do you internet date?

I think you should write her a note or get her a card...this is the dj you mentioned in another thread, right? would you be able to leave the note somewhere for her? Be honest in the note (make it short and sweet) and say you admire her choice in music and write your number. I would find something like that sweet. Is it just me?? hm, would someone else find this creepy? opinions?

 

I was going to do just that, then some people I talked to about it advised against it. But now that you mention it I may reconsider.

I was going to slip a note to her in her work mailbox, or e-mail her through the station, but the more I think about it the more it seems creepy as I have never done more than exchange hellos with her. It doesn't really seem creepy to me, but it seems it could be easily interpreted as creepy.

 

Interweb dating sounds as scary as fuck.

Just thinking of the non-dating sites I've been at, and the psycho-loons I've come across, I think I'd pass. Permanently.

Now black magic as a dating tool however.... :-/

 

or can't you just go in the afternoon and approach her and just say you wanted to meet her because you admire her taste in music?
see if you click..
do you know what she looks like?

oh man, I sound like a stalker...hahahah.
I'm just into love, though.

 

I think similar taste in music is important actually. I dated someone with no similar music taste as me and it actually caused a lot of problems. We could never agree what to listen to on the radio in the car or in the bedroom...

 

Yes, I know what she looks like -- attractive, but very bookish. She also comes across as very shy and meek. Even on the radio she speaks with a near whisper at times and sounds very uncomfortable to talk on air. I personally find that to be an admirable trait, since usually those who talk the loudest and the most have the least to say.

 

I think internet dating is the only way I could find someone I could really get along with. I'm kind of an odd person.

 

Never tried a dating site. I have however met a few special girls online (non-dating sites), when I wasn't looking. I think things happen when you stop trying so hard.

 

Interesting. I've got this theory that our "type" is some sort of energy signature.
Some people, their type is always gonna be near they grew up, or were from.
Other people, their type might be thousands of miles away.

By "type" I mean, I think we have a core personality that manifests itself in a particularl way, and repeatedly in what we would otherwise assume are unrelated areas. Its hard to explain.

Sometimes, I've been to a certain town and thought "wow I wouldnt wanna date anyone here". Then I can meet someone who lives on the other side of the World, and think "wow this person is just like me..."

Back on topic, internet dating just sounds weird tho..
I'll get back to "accidentally" spilling coffee over women outside bohemian style art galleries..
(I *am* joking... honest : ) )

 

Or get murdered by an axe maniac...
Its the chance u take.

 

omg the poor guy.

 

Yeah, I'm odd and shy....
so my question is, how is it that some people meet anywhere but a dating site??
ha
how exactly do you approach people and where at?
Maybe I have to stop online dating.

 

That is what I would like to know.

 

but I gave you advice! lol..is she working this afternoon? you should go see her

 

It wouldn't go over well if I took that approach.

 

aw, why not?
I don't think it's so strange to go tell someone you admire their choice in music

 

just go up and say "ey qurl u want sum fuk"

She'll admire how bold & gallant you are

 

The only way it will work is if she comes in early one morning, or is there late when I arrive, as she was about a month and a half ago (before I knew who she was). The latter would be preferable.

 

You need to try lateral thinking then.

How about getting locked in the lift with her, "accidentally" overnight..?

(However, please note, one of you needing to shit into a carrier-bag might slightly spoil the "mood of the moment"...)

 

I totally agree, but it needs to be under the right circumstances.