Do you internet date?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Le Aura, Jun 21, 2013.

  1. skitzo child

    skitzo child PEACEFUL LIBRA

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    Duely noted
     
  2. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    Also, slightly touch her when you adress her and look her straight in the eyes.
    Softly touch her arm or her waist, but don't hold for too long. Be funny, be serious, but neither of them all the time. Keep things light and be gallant. Be strong and confident too. And if you happen to be on a beach after sundown, lift her up and run in the water. In slowmotion if possible.
    Success guaranteed.
     
  3. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    I was thinking about going out with someone from okc tonight but I'm just way too burnt out with that site. Guess I'm gonna wait to find my soul mate on hip...
    :p
     
  4. bird_migration

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    Since Piaf isn't interested anymore, you are the next in line. Was it meant to be or did the gods in all their wisdom decided this is the way it should be?
     
  5. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    nahh, I don't wanna be second choice
     
  6. bird_migration

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    How about third choice? I am sure I can find a different second choice!
     
  7. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    I dated someone for four years that I met on the net.

    Fortunately there were no surprises as he was actually very much the way he posted which was attractive to me.

    No regrets having met him or dated him.
     
  8. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    I made an OKC profile about a month ago. There are a lot of duds, but I managed to meet someone and we are dating :)
     
  9. Arlandis

    Arlandis Visitor

    so since bird's hustling all the girls, any dudes wanna date me?
     
  10. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    I signed up for OKC. Wish me luck.
     
  11. odonII

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    I've formed some friendships with women online, but that's about it (a nice 'it' though :) ).
    Any of them that it looked like it was heading into 'dating', and have actually lived in this country, know how to get to Leicester, and are willing to find there way here - have turned out to be manic depressives with animal fetishes.
    Or:

    [​IMG]

    So, I've quickly deleted their No. from my mobile phone, and blocked them from my Facebook account (etc).


    I thought It would be a nice way to meet women without any type of pressure - but there always is, more so, infact.
    So I don't engage with online 'dating' at all.
    Most of the women my age who use online dating have too much baggage, anyway - or like 'long walks in the country' zzzzz.
     
  12. RainyDayHype

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    woo!
    [​IMG]
     
  13. odonII

    odonII O

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    I agree with you :) (for once)
     
  14. Mike Suicide

    Mike Suicide Sweet and Tender Hooligan

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    careful man I heard there's all kinds of "Weirdo's" on there that also post on HF.
     
  15. lively_girl

    lively_girl Member

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    Good luck! :2thumbsup:
     
  16. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    In the country, no one can hear you scream....

    A friend of mine used to tell me about his online dating experiences. I'd REALLY struggle to keep a straight face... :D
     
  17. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    There is some sort of science of compatibility.. I think..
    But its not the sort of science that benefits from a scientific approach.
    Ofcourse that makes no sense, but what I mean is, the "holistic approach" is probably best.. I think.
     
  18. odonII

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    o_O I never thought about that.

    I can't be too cynical about it all because I do know some people that have made it work. But others have not been so lucky. Obviously. I would say it hasn't worked more often than not, and it's been real train wreck afterwards...
    Some of the stories are quite amusing - after the fact - though :D

    It turned out to be not my thing. It just isn't me. The whole dating game isn't my thing, to be honest. I prefer no dating at all. But that's another story.
     
  19. odonII

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    I know what you mean :)
     
  20. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    Well the whole online selecting thing sounds really cold and clinical.. and horrible. Then I think, "well why dont these people meet anyone in RL.."

    And with the Net I also think how I can see what psychos some people can be, even in certain supposedly hippy type places...

    I think internet dating is a result of the modern era. People spend more time on work, then wind up going for a cheap and cheerful/ qucik and easy "Mcdonalds" approach to meeting the opposite sex. Which sounds a shame.

    Maybe there are valid reasons to use it, but it would make me feel really uncomfortable. My friend met his Mrs thro it, probably because none of his friends could hand on their heart recommend him to anyone..

    Having said all that, I'm a very all or nothing person. I'm either lukewarm/ massively undecided/ completely disinterested in someone. Or I think that person's perfect for me (which is an extremely rare occurrence for me).
     

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