well, you gotta look beyond that. Are you SURE they wanna remain JUST friends? Im having the same problem, but im figuring ways out. you gotta tell them that you are interested in dating again because you feel like you're commited fully to a relationship. That'll raise an eyebrow. Im sure you dont but try not to complain about it towards them that you have trouble getting a girl because that'll might hint that you are just friends. Look at a friend that you are interested in and give her compliments, if shes flirting with you back, she doesnt want to be JUST friends. then step up and ask for coffee or whatever. but tell me if you done this and ill figure out another plan
The problem is SL, many people flirt online but fail to tell you they already have a BF or they are just filling time.
i think if he's done that then the next plan should be rohypnol ...or if you can't afford that than a bat
thats also bad. Just be yourself and women might or might not like it. What you see is what you get with me. I remember a guy asking me "what do you like in a man?" after days of talking and I simply said "you" and he was dumbfounded but kinda excited so i dunno. I try to be nice and he said "me?" and i said well if i didnt like you, i wouldnt be interested in you, so I like you.
eh, i've tried that somewhat, but this does seem like sound advice. and don't worry, i only whine to you people, not people in real life. i'm about to leave for the evening, but if you have other ideas, you're more than welcome to share. thanks.
i've had too many creepy encounters with gay guys. 3 to be precise. i just wish women were all over me as much as gay dudes seem to be. anyway, i don't have any prejudice against gay guys, but from what i've been through, i do have a bit of a phobia.
It was only because I thought the real me was boring. But women can be boring too. So I just adopted your attitude. If women don't lke who I am then I don't have time for them. It works both ways. I've said that too. It makes things very real very fast.
I cannot stand the ones that base their entire personality around being gay. Just like I dislike straight people who base their entire personality around being "straight" and "manly". I lived with two gay guys, among others once... it was a very interesting mix of death metal and Rent.
Dunno, probly not, but they like it more than i would with guys doin it to me because they're attracted to guys. Girls are used to it. Either way theres no way in controlling how people think so it doesn't matter either way.
This is how i feel. I have had one bad experience a guy tried to get me in his bed and it was weird as fuck.
What I am saying is...don't freak out if a guy likes you. Take it as a compliment. It doesn't mean you have to jump into bed with him and start a whole new way of life.