Do you prefer petite girls / woman as a bigger advantage to taller one's or not?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by nz male, Sep 29, 2012.

  1. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Some woman just like to wear clothing that either suits or shows / fits / their figures or suits their age group or just want to show as much as possible & knowing they may get noticed more ?
     
  2. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I wish to apologise for my comments regarding 'prefer petite girls' - I were actually meaning teens who are young adults & not young girls. When does a female become a young adult in your country - her legal age for sex or when she turns 20?
    16 is the legal age for sex here. If I 'were' 40 & dating a younger woman in her 20's, it may not be just because of her sexual appearance or personality but a variety of other reasons too. Sometimes age is not always important but just as long as it's legally acceptable. Even if a guy (my age) in his very early 50's met a woman in her 20's & had a sexual & loving relationship with her, wouldn't that be acceptable ?
     
  3. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I met a very attractive woman (in her early 30's) the other day who visited me & she had a medium build that I liked a lot more than my wife's build & she was so sexy looking with blonde hair. I enjoyed her visit more than she knew I did. If she was single & available & if I were as well, I would have asked her out for a date.
    She made my day heaps better in more ways than one! I took a photo of her as well.
    Some of her family knew some of mine years ago. Thats why we met up.
     
  4. foresting

    foresting Member

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    Nz Male, your wife actually deserves better than that. Why commit to one person and then continue oogling others and wishing you could ask them out... ?!
     
  5. Mayor Salt

    Mayor Salt Member

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    This.
     
  6. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Committed doesn't mean you turn blind, guys.
     
  7. Mayor Salt

    Mayor Salt Member

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    Blind is one thing. It doesn't turn you creepy, either.
     
  8. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    i've always been amazed at gettin' a half inch.i'm 5ft 2 an a half inches.the first time someone called me petite i did'nt know what the word ment.anyway because of it i get mistaken for 5ft 4inchs sometimes cos of being so slender.but i don't think hight has much ta do with sex.cos its easy climb a tree once its knocked:smilielol5::smilielol5::smilielol5:
     
  9. puggybear

    puggybear stars may twinkle-but I shine!

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    True,roamy-but even then,it's SO much more acceptable if the tree's old enough to grow some leaves. [​IMG]
     
  10. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    If I 'were' still single - that is when I would ask a person out on a date - if I liked her for different reasons. Looks don't always count - personality does as well & other good points they have.
    It's just the person that visited me us the other day was a lot more attractive than my wife is .My wife is very slim, good looking but not as attractive as the visitor was who had other things I admired about her as well. Her body was of a nice medium build & didn't have the skinny looking / feel effect my wife has. I found that out when my visitor & I gave each other a real good hug just after she arrived & as she was leaving - my wife got a couple as well from her. It felt totaly different to hug another woman with a firmer body than my wife's skinny type. I actually liked my visitor more than she realised & we are going to keep in contact - as her family & mine have a connection we both share -it's one of her & our hobbies - family tree research.
    We took some group photos of each of us & mine with her has more than one good reason now- not just the same hobby we all share, but for another reason too. Another nice moment to remember in my life. I have her phone number & she has mine, but thats only for sharing family info etc.
     
  11. PlacidDingo

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    You're coming across as sleazy. If you don't want to, you might want to look at the content of your posts and reevaluate.
     
  12. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Sleezy ?,the difference between my age (52) & hers (34) was 18 yrs , I just liked her for different reasons not, just because she was great looking in various ways, but because we both had something in common - one of her family knew one of mine many years ago. Thats the reason we decided to met up. She rung me after one of my famliy members gave her my phone number. I tried to guess what she 'may' look like well before she arrived. I were wrong about her appearance when she arrived - she looked
    so much better than I thought she might have & I were even happier that day for another reason. We had a great talk about about the main reason she contacted me originaly for. I'm sure many other's try to guess what a stranger looks like that they speak to on the phone occassionaly too -& just for curiosity ?
     
  13. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    We have been married for nearly 29 yrs & my wife has many things I like & care about her for different reasons. Many things I do in my own spare time are different to what she does in her - but we both share our similar sense of humour etc & even our similar looks! .But we 'do' share & enjoy some of the same interests / hobbies & others I have are totally diferent to her's.
    My marriage has out lasted my parents & my other brothers & sisters - so I'm set for many more years - so that says something positive instead of divorce. But my wife &
    Re: creepy, yes I did say I have some different interests to my wife's & makes life just a bit different as well.
    Imagine if every one was exactly the same in looks , personalities? It wouldn't be as interesting?
     
  14. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Just don't take your wife for granted and don't put her aside for pursuits for other women. Even fantasies can get dangerous personally if it starts laying the foundation of what could lead up to a divorce.

    So far so good in your case, but something could always change.
     
  15. PlacidDingo

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    1. Semi-lewd story about ogling women/watching 15 year olds in the shower/super descriptive story of how a woman's body looks

    2. Backpedal, blame reader for misinterpreting you

    3. Repeat ad infinetum.
     
  16. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    But your interests will violate the fidelity your wife likely assumes you have.

    You can say all you want about you are just looking, but there will be the day when just looking turns to just going with the flow.

    How do I know? I was an other woman, but he was "just going with it."

    A more disturbing scenario has you out peeping in windows.


    Talk to the woman who has been there for you for almost two decades. Show some respect, and have humility that someone has stayed with you even as you aged.
    Work something out.
     
  17. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    My wife knows the hobbies I had when we got married 29 yrs ago & the ones I have now (some we are both interested in) but not my habit of oogling other woman. We were both virgins the day we got married (29 yrs ago) & thats the way she wanted it. If woman either dress or look attractive in a certain way that I like, I notice them.
    If they wear very revealing clothing, I take a short look & carry on doing at work or elsewhere what I were doing beforehand.
    The young teenage woman I saw nude - just by chance many years ago, was the first I had seen. My wife was the first I had had sex with. Our sex life may not be ideal at times due to my working hours or her health, but we do share have it when able.
    I have been married a lot longer than any other members of my family were. They all separted / divorced now or are not alive anymore.
    So I have set a record marriage wise within the family. That says something!
     
  18. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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  19. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    I have a feeling that if your wife read any of your posts you write on here nz she would be gone and I would not blame her one bit for leaving!
     
  20. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    No, she won't / can't find out - I have ways of dealing with that.
     

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