100% agree- Oral is just the best, giving or receiving. The sight of my wife losing control as she goes over the edge from my tongue is such a turn on.
That's why I like to stay in her mouth. If I start to lose control in her mouth she usually knows or I can warn her if I know she doesn't want me to finish there. But it's hard to stop if I start spurting outside her mouth and you never knw where exactly it's going to land. I like the messy look sometimes but it feels much better to release inside of a warm, wet mouth.
For me it's hearing the deep breathing then, 'wait, wait, that's too much' and I stop as she begins to recover, but now and then wiggle my tongue and get another gasp. She's a half-awake basket case after that.
That's the thing, it's such an invigorating experience, the natural smell and taste of a pussy. It's nature's aphrodisiac. I get so drawn in and sexually charged by it and really get into sucking as much juice out as I can. Feels like drinking from the fountain of youth. I don't mind a 69, it feels great if she's sucking on me simultaneously, but it's rare for me to be satisfied with just the woman blowing me, while I can be in heaven just going down on her. She's gotta be a little ripe, though - if she's washed then I feel like I might as well be licking a wet hand or whatever. I want no doubt it's a pussy. And no doubts that I can enter her to blast my load inside her during the course of eating her.
It's definitely something to enjoy. I don't know if it holds across personal encounters but in porn it's common to see the guy battering away at her clit with his tongue and not so common to see him licking her folds, probing her depths, and sucking out love juice and swallowing it. It's entirely different eating cum after it's been released into a vagina and coming out, than to eat the load directly. The vagina removes that graininess and stickiness, and seasons it with the best flavoring that can be found.
Swallow. I have always swallowed from the very first one. I hate having mine spit out, so I never spit.
The main reason that I've kept my long, thick mustache all these years is so I can suck the pussy juice out of it when I'm done eating a woman!!
Don't get me wrong, any release is good. Handjobs feel great. Releasing in a mouth is even better but I don't mind much if she wants to spit it out after but a few of the women who let me cum in their mouths like to suck it after I shoot until I'm soft again (which makes me wiggle a LOT) and they just swallow my semen rather than stopping and starting again and that makes for a great blowjob. Everyone has a "style" when they suck so it's all good.
Let's go back in time. I'm 21, have had two girls suck, one shouting, "What did you do!" when I came. Not fun. Then somehow I met Betty. She's 32, just divorced, with three young girls. In the next 7-8 months, I learned everything I would need to know about sex for the next 20 yrs! When she did oral, it was, well, a procedure. Slow beginning with enjoyment of a younger male's hard dick. Then the activity itself, but with frequent stops for talk before back to work. I was now in an alien world. Then the finish, with noises from her, and no letting go. Then holding on until I went completely soft, and letting me slip out. I was beyond speechless, lost and mindless. Oh, wait, this was the routine every few days, between the almost-gymnastic vaginal and the introduction to anal. That's when I learned what a true 'Mistress of the Art' could do. It would be 8 yrs later before I ran into another of that level. Favorite memory of that lady, I was stressed out with work and complaining . She pushed me down onto the bed, said, "Shut the fuck up.", pulled my jeans down and turned me into a mindless blob. Then, "Go to sleep." Ah, yes, the 'Mistresses of the Art'.