As I said I just wanted to talk but you cannot talk to strange girls outside. But I am sure they would talk if I was a hot looking guy. Even at university, even at the class, I cannot talk to any girl. They dont want. I am not at their level.. If I was an handsome guy, it wouldnt be this hard to talk to someone from opposite gender, though. That has nothing to do with sex. Why would I say to anybody about having sex? In 29 years of my life, I only had one girlfriend. We dated for 10 months. I didnt even say to her that I want to have sex. Why is all this coming? The problem is, you cannot talk to a strange girl. A strange girl also wouldnt want to talk to a strange guy unless he is a hot guy.
That isn't usually their true mindset is what I'm saying. @Grandeur, I think if you try to talk to any girl you might see that you've got all of these preconceived notions that are false; total stereotypes. You will like them! They're cool people if you just give them a chance. Instead, what most guys do is go in with an expectation that there will be sex, or that girls are dumb whores. You seem to misunderstand their reason for not wanting to talk to most guys. Once you understand that reason, they're really easy to talk to. They're really social. And you're not unattractive, man. I know how you feel. I have weight problems sometimes (though right now I'm weighing less than I have in 20 years!) and look a little chunky. In my case, it's just a matter of losing some weight.
You might not be strange though... You're not unattractive... go pick on someone! Lol.. Try striking up a conversation. Figure out what you want to say beforehand - you know... plan it out a little...
Strange guy means a guy who is stranger. Isnt he? Understand what I mean. English isnt my native language And girls are very choosy. I am no hot guy. If I looked like Ricky Martin, it would be easier. He is handsome, for instance. He got old now (he was born in 1971)but at least when he was younger, in his 30s, 20s. You know. He was born in the same year as my mother, by the way.
I've been living in Turkey for 29 years myself. Dont count the first 15 years for being too young. So it makes it 14 years.
I am also eating carcinogen bread to go faster. Fry them like hell and eat them. Will it make my time come earlier?
Right, Grandy. I am fetching the only other Turkish member I know to this thread. See what he has to say.
That carpet laying job in Canada may not be available right now, but maybe you can try to make your way to Canada eventually. Is there anything holding you in Turkey?
Friend all you have to due is get off the pity pot and the boo waaa waaaas ok we get it.We say here in the west if you really want to kill yourself you would have done it by now. All I’ve seen this morning is you whining and Candy Gal trying to pump up your ego. This bullshit I’m going to get beat up for talking to a girl .All you have to do is complement them, tell them they look nice today. Get a dialogue started. Or you can step off the curb in front of a truck
I have a head ache. I took 15 majezik pills now. I didnt feel any harm from pain killer yet. Only, my shit becomes a little liquid. Majezik is a simple pain killer. I take a full pack but I dont feel any harm except what I mentioned above.