Hmmm... Might I suggest a good old fashioned "69" with your partner? You would be able to have something to do with your mouth and be able to be on the receiving end as well.. now, you'll need to see which works out better for you, your partner on top, or you on top, as the sensations are entirely different. When the guy is on top it almost feels like "milking" and it's interesting, but I definitely preferred when she was on top and sucking away and I was licking her pussy/clit from down below.. The view was better too, in my opinion anyway... :afro: So, that might be an answer for you...
I enjoy being on the bottom, because I get to rim his ass. It seems like a lot of guys prefer the woman to be on top. But, I have recently discovered that rimming a man or a woman is the secret to me getting tingly. I've met very few people that are into it. I don't blame the people that think rimming is gross, but you would only know how fun it is if you tried it!
LOL... Need a partner :O Dunno... Could be fun.. But yes, try out the 69er and maybe that would be the answer for you