Does anybody on this site

haha hes not a midget. he is short but hes still taller than me. hes also great in bed
:H

 

ewww too much info.... who we talkin about again?

 

someone say my name?

 

Until a few seconds ago, I had nothing at all against fat women! I'm even in love with one...

Good job I can morph back into my lanky state whenever I feel threatened.. But with being eaten??????

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Back on the thread.. Speaking personally, I don't lie. If I feel the need to say it, I do.. Mostly I opt to keep my mouth shut, even after being asked my opinion on what is pretty and what isn't..

 

Hey Chaos, I think you are one butt ugly mofo.

 

So what would be the benefit of telling someone that he or she is ugly? What is that person going to do to stop being ugly?

Moreover, most ugly people probably know that they are ugly in the first place.

 

Here's a different perspective..

Would you risk a friendship, gained because of mutual understandings and interests and not on looks, by constantly telling your friend that they were ugly?

There are a lot of things more important than attractiveness.. Sure, you could be honest with people, and have a lot of good looking friends. But in my opinion, you'd look more fake than those who have the ability to bite their tongues or elect to make a person feel a little better about themselves..

SageDreamer is right about most people knowing if their ugly or not, and to offer a little relief that they still carry some sort of attraction to the opposite sex, be it true or not, has to be worth a white lie or two.

 

What's the point, really?

I could care less. The only reason to do it would be to cause emotional harm to that person for no reason.

It's not about having balls, really. I have balls without that.

Big Balls.

Bouncing Big Balls.

Dancing Big Balls.

 

Who's got the biggest...

balls of them all?

 

We got the BIGGEST BALLS OF THEM ALL!

Everybody COMES AND COMES AGAIN...

 

If they constantly ask me how they look, then yes. I don't know what kind of friends you have but if I tell my friends they're ugly, they're not going to abandon our friendship because I told them something they didn't want to hear.

I'm not saying to constantly go into peoples galleries and start posting that they're ugly, but when somebody asks,"Am I attractive?", have the decency to tell them no if you don't think so.

 

There's a word nobody's used yet on this thread, and that is "tactfully"..

Would make all the difference, especially if we're as supportive as we claim, as friends, to be..

I know it's something we have to learn, and I reckon that avoidance is the preffered method until w learn to be tactful.

 

I'm perfectly capable of being tactful when I feel there is a need to be. I do not, however, feel I need to be tactful at all times. Especially to those I have no attachment to. Hell just last Friday I looked at a girl at work and asked, "Why in the fuck did you do that to your hair? I don't like it"

People can either deal with it, or they can't. I believe one should not post their picture unless they're ready to hear things they don't want to hear. Just my opinion.

 

I actually agree with you.. But only because I know there are people out there who don't care enough to keep quiet..

If I don't know the person, and don't know if they could deal with it or not, I'd opt to say nothing. If they were somebody I knew a little, I'd go for a tactful approach. If I knew them well, I'd already know if a direct "You need to sort yourself out!" would work.. But more to the point, I'd know them well enough to have half a dozen other ways of telling them..

I think that's the reason I make very few comments on galleries here..

There's just no reason to say anything... Good or bad..

 

THis is terrible. how mean to tell somebody they're ugly, nobody wants to hear that about themselves I think that's just awful. WHat kind of a person would say that to somebody.

 

If I have something nice to say, I'll say it. But I try not to insult people.

 

If they don't want to hear it, they shouldn't ask about it or make reference to it. For instance if I"m talking to somebody and they say, "Who would want to date me? I mean look at me, I'm ugly", I"m not going to lie and be like, "You're not ugly; you're beautiful". I'll come back with, "Looks aren't everything. We all have strong points, yours just aren't physical"

Whether they wanted to hear it or not is irrelevant at that point because it was their choice of conversation.

 

that would be a reasonable response. would still hurt my feelings to hear that but it is honest but not brutally so.

 

Make no mistake: I'm still known for sentences like, "You better get your ugly ass away from me", and "My number? Sorry, but you're about 40 lbs to heavy to be calling me"

 

That was pretty good!