Does she like me or just friends?

True that. We may discover that all the generosity that we find in life is precisely equal to our own.

 

Offtopic, but yay for the Croatian flag !

 

That's not a solution to his problem. His problem is that he wants to date this girl. I'm trying to help him accomplish that. By taking your advice he loses self respect by coming off as even more of a pussy in her eyes. I mean, exactly how is that conversation supposed to go down anyways?

Kitch: "I really like you, will there ever be anything between us?"
Girl: "I have a bf"
Kitch: "Ok" *tucks tail between his legs and walks away in shame*

And I don't really see this as playing games. If she had no interest in him what so ever and was just toying with him, then yeah that's playing games... but she probably kind of likes him, and this may be her way of flirting to see if he might be someone she'd want to date. Or maybe she's just very flirtacious by nature. Whatever the case, this is how sexual interaction between male and females go. That's the (mating) "game". Everyone has to play it to some extent. You either accept it and learn to do it well, or you stay single.

 

xxaru I feel like you're giving really good advice right now. I appreciate it. I'm gonna try rollin like that for a while and see where it gets me.

BC I was in the long-term relationship for so long I've been out of the game for a while. Plus this chick is way different than my ex...

 

and another game player is born...

 

you're fixating still...

you can play a game. sure it works. but its not a game if there are only two player(you and her) then its just a duel. add some more girls to your social equation.

even if they(other girls) aren't "dating material" you might, at best, make a friend or second best you could get a fuck.

if you were bored with the girl from work... you'd be irresistible to her. i hope you realize that.