quite honestly i dont care plus colenzo told me to change my avatar and i just cant allow that now, can i?
aboslutely not. it goes against all rules of forum posting to back down when you're grossing someone out.
When I left this last night, most people on this thread, where saying that they expect their friends to like the same people they do and vice-versa. I'm glad theres a few people that have posted on here now that seem reasonable, and it did seem like something out of the playground, as someone else said. I had great difficulties with my best friend recently (which has kinda sorted it self out) my partner of 11 years still continued to see her, because it was me who had difficulties with her not him. I might have sulked a bit at the time! however we believe that our relationship should be based on not controlling each other S
That's called being unloyal. If I meet person 'A', and then I meet person 'B', only to find out later that they don't like each other it is absolutely unloyal to choose either one over the other. That's an A-B problem and I'll C my way right out of it. Edit: I'd also like to add that true friends will show you respect and not talk shit about your other friends in your presence unless it is part of the conversation or if they're telling you initially they don't like the person and why. Past that, it is unneeded to go off every time they hear your other friends name. I will say though that if I know my friends have a problem with somebody I have not yet befriended I will not befriend them out of caution and respect. I will not, however, drop one friend for another. Also, I think it's rediculous partially because I'm friends with a lot of gang members. Many of which are from rival gangs. But if I call up all of them to watch after me for whatever reason, they will put their petty differences aside to help me. If they can get let it go for the sake of loyalty I see no reason why anybody else can't.
for some reason I like just about everyone I know in person, so this never comes up...on here it could, but of course I don't expect everyone to like and dislike along with me, that would be ridiculous, and i see that the more ridiculous members on this forum think that.
I've experienced this in real life and here on the forums and I've alway been one to take a neutral stance. I don't expect all my friends to like each other and I don't expect all my friend's friends to like me. I can't control how others feel and am not going to take sides when the disagreement doesn't concern me. If friend A, doesn't like friend B, that's their issue. The only time I'll get involved is if I don't like the way one treats the other. In most situations I find that both people act wrong towards one another. So I say my piece and tell them both to knock it off and that I don't want anything to do with it.
yeah tell them to both get on and sort it out, if you get too involued, the upset party will end up blaming you S
hhheeeeeeheeeeeee see now that's what I call a friend I hop you're having a happy day and enjoying your dog