wait, I've been curious about the ass thing, that doesn't SOUND like anything I'd want to do, but the other...wow I don't know a single man that would understand if I asked him to do this...nor girlfriends either, it's why I joined here Cuff...having to ASK a man to spank me defeats the purpose. I sure wish I could tell by looking at a man if he would be into that, but can't. Sometimes I feel like I've found one only to be disappointed when I get to know him better. Too bad they can't write it on their forheads, would save me a ton of time.
Haha. He doesnt have any brothers. And you shouldnt have to ask a man to spank you. Instead, get a plain colored t shirt, and write it in big bold letters. Then they already know what to do!