drowning in loneliness

I didn't mean to sound rude or anything but it seems to be that attitude that makes people feel depressed or lonely... I've been through withdrawl that was horrible from alcohol, lexapro and ativans.... it is pretty horrible but meditation and learning to deal with panic attacks through breathing and meditation really help.


As for lonliness, just sign up for things that you like or would like to learn and you should be able to meet people with the same interests.

 

I'm warning you right now to keep this thread on topic- if you ask again, I will put you on time out.

 

why are you being like this? just get off the forum if you want to be a jerk to people. GEEEEEEEZ

 

thanks for trying to keep the thread clean, its nice seeing the mods do there jobs...

 

cause I like being a jerk to people.

 

:spam:

 

then take your own advice and go kill yourself......

 

You're welcome and I suggest people just ignoring her. She obviously comes on here looking for attention.

 

yeah, I am an attention whore.

 

i want to let you know, im taking your post seriously, and ignore anyone thats just bored and wanting to be an ass.

but obviously number one place not to go to meet new people is at the bar, see if there are any events in your area that envolve the same interests you do.

 

I live myself too much to do that. and what kinda world would it be without me ?

 

When I feel most alone I find that making myself find a way to be of service and help other people that have more dire needs than me gives a little perspective. Gets me out of my head and back in the flow of things, plus it takes me out of the usual routine and gives me an oppourtunity to reinforce new behavior patterns that make me feel good and I can make new friends.


Helping others is a natural buzz with no bad side affects you know?

I used to be suicidal and went to rehab and jail for drugs and suffered with what was called bipolar disorder, they put me on depakote...but it turned out just to be a hormonal imbalance exacerbated by shitty choices and neglecting to actively take care of my self. Depression is our bodies way of telling us we are needing to re evaluate what we are putting in them and doing with our time here.

Know your self and your natural rhythems and you can heal your self. There is no magic pill and it's hard work sometimes but it's the only thing I have found that actually makes a difference. Change already, throw the excuses out the door.

Then just pick a point and start. It does'nt matter where, just that you do it.

You are Loved

 

i think this has already been established.

 

Superpimp- seriously, ignore JI... and JI, one more comment that doesn't have to do with this thread and you will get your wish.


Btw... great advice from honeysuckleblue.... volunteering is great- it does take you outta your head and yourself... and who knows... you might meet decent people there also.

 

it would be exactly the same minus one uninteresting spoiled brat

 

about the only thing around here is the creative minds society, and all they do is get high and make bongs out of random objects....

 

19 is a good age to go to school, and going to school is a good way to get out of your hometown

 

Hahaha... sounds like fun..

Ummmm can't you sign up for like some kinda marital arts class or something and meet people there or.... I don't know....