Extra Blessed and Not Put to Use and Frustrated

Thanks gleich, very kind words. Mostly likely my SO is interested in my personality and who I am. Only wish she'd take more interest in my oversize manhood, i'm starving for some attention and have nowhere else to turn

 

Aah, sooner or later she will discover the benefits of the goods she has access too. girls are just a little bit strange in some regards, but once they get a taste they are into it. gl bro.

 

dude, this will pass. i think all dudes get hung up on their dongs at one time or another. we all want to be admired or affirmed. right now, ur girl needs to be admired and affirmed. dont let ur dong get in the way, no matter how big it is. she needs ur support thru this. if ur all hung up on urself, u r telling her, she is not worth the effort. be there for her, and think of ways to make her emotional rollercoaster smoother. do things for her and expect nothing in return, no praise, or thank you. even if she doesnt acknowledge it in any way, she is noticing it. keep doing it no matter what! even if she criticizes it! ur dong is what it is. it will never gain u long lasting satisfaction nor approval. some other dude with bigger balls, or pecs or whatever will draw attention away from those who were attracted to u because of ur dong! it wont last and u will be out of a lasting loving relationship! keep ur focus on her and she will come around. and then reap the benefits of such a well endowed young man!(your endowments will be more than a big peter! they will be a big heart, a big sense of what it is all about! ) God bless u dude, and much success in ur true relationship!

 

I hope it all passes with time, i wish she appreciated the extra goods and wasn't afraid of it! I need some hotness.

 

op, i don't get it, your 30 and just found out you have a big crank. and after 13 years with gf she now can't deal with your big old crank, i must be missing some thing.

 

I kinda knew, but as time's gone by i've been awokened to the fact, also, my significant other doesn't put up with as much as she used to so now she's more honest about things.

 

see it's 12:44am, and i'm up b/c i want some so bad and can't sleep. There has to be girls out there that would appreciate a guy at 30 with 9+???

 

I'm going to meet up with a 31 year old tomorrow with 9+.

 

that's awesome orgasmik, unfortunately I'm taken, just here to express my frustration and hopefully cope.

 

Dude, I don't think she meant you. having a big peen doesnt make you some Uber-desirable sex god. just makes you hung.

I wish it did...oh, how I wish....

anyhoo. you said you are 30, she said someone 31... so yeah...

 

It's good that you are sharing your frustration now since you are in love with your girl. You should talk to her about your frustration and share with her your fantasies and see if she is willing to do whatever it is you want to do to get off. Let her know invite her in on what you're thinking about. good luck.

 

Rangle, good point, I thought of that after i posted, sorry orgazmik!!! Didn't mean to imply I was automatically in with you. Good luck tonight ne way

 

Thank you for the advice. She knows most of my issues. And we do talk in detail. I'm just built different, hornier and built too big for compatibility. I need another outlet.

 

hey orgazmik, how did your meet up go? Was this the first time you met him? I'm really glad to know someone who seems so cool appreciates people like us By the way, you're pretty intriguing person, don't know much about you yet though!

 

We're meeting today at 12. It will be my first time meeting up with him and hopefully it'll go ok. *crosses fingers*

 

dude, as soon as u can maybe move past this obsession with the size of it, maybe she will be more receptive to u. it may be ur obsession that is making her feel uncomfortable? enjoy ur size alone. i think I could satisfy mine plenty good if mine was that big. enjoy the sensations it can give u until she gets past this phase. focus on pleasing her nonsexually would be even better than pleasing urself! she will appreciate it, even if she doesnt outwardly show it at first.

 

U sure have alot of encouragement, we've just been together so long it's past that. I wish. So another night of unsatisfaction, does anyone else go through this?

 

dude, why doesnt masturbation satisfy? u could have closeness with her(cuddling, etc.) and just have an hour or so of enjoying ur own creative masturbatory techniques? try rubbing ur thighs and nips and balls, massage ur shaft a while, play with it. watch how it reacts. watch it get hard and go soft a couple of times. watch urself in the mirror. roll it around in ur hand. make it bounce with your pc muscle(always fun) then start to slow stroke and stop. then maybe u have some pre-lube oozing by then, then play with that or spit in ur hand. hold the shaft with one hand and rub ur head into the other palm. it feels nice. then jack and ejac. happy ending.

 

all that to just maybe get ur mind off ur peter and onto other things, like how to help her get past all this so u both can relax and get back to ur relationship. : ) meant to be helpful not judgmental, ok dude?