Feeling betrayed and ranting about it

How many more lives will The Lion King ruin?!

Prognosis is good. You'll be fine. Learn a lesson and use condoms.

 

I hate to sound like a total asshole coming in fresh out of banning and all.....But having unprotected sex with an IV drug user who shares needles without protection goes beyond irresponsible almost into suicidal. Lucky it isn't AIDS. You got off the hook fairly easily. Shit with hep you can easily live into your sixties with fairly minimal medication as opposed to "The Cocktail" which has a lot of physical and psychological side effects.

You were betrayed slightly. The dude was a fuck and dash. To you it may have been more but to him it wasn't. That is what makes the deal shitty. If to both of you it was just a "one time only" or a "once in a while thing" you both would've known that it would've been in the words of Bob Seeger "I used her, She used me but neither one of us cared." In this case it was "I loved him, He used me, only one of us cared."

The thing is though. All of our actions have consequences. You made a series of bad decisions and may be sick. It happens to all of us at one time. Humans are incredible since we don't have any intuitive survival instincts. To this day we got where we are because we either fucked up ourselves or we watched others get fucked up. We learned not to eat that mushroom because someone earlier down the line watched one of their friends eat said mushroom and die. Most people learn their limitations with liquor after puking and waking up with a hangover a few times. We learn our limits and what is responsible behavior the hard way.

You took your lick. In a little while you will appreciate in the words of Chogyum Trungpa, "The Manure of Experience". "The flowers of wisdom, grow from the manure of experience".

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

AIDS Takes Between 3 And 12 Months To Show Up In Tests, Best Have A Test Every Month For The Next 12 Months...



Cheers Glen.

 

Kid didn't have AIDS or HIV. And I knew it was a one night thing. I don't love the bastard, he's almost like a brother to me. He cares about me the same way. I've never had long term feelings for that hoebag. That night there wasn't anything special, we really were just using each other. And I'm more than okay with that.

 

Hopefully the outcome is that you didnt contract anything, but this will scare you into using protection ALWAYS from now on.

Protection EVERY SINGLE TIME with guys. When the CDC puts out AIDS figures they catergorise it by the behaviour that most likely caused the infection as reported by the GP, not what the subjects self identify as. There is a huge difference.

So when the CDC, or whatever the gov health organization in your country is puts out figures saying the biggest groups for HIV infection are IV drug users and Men that have sex with Men.....then some tabloid like everyone else will just automatically assume they mean gay guys, cos everyone has to pretend only gay guys do that, you'll get a news article saying HIV rates jumped up 2% this year from IV drug users and 4% from gay men

Unfortunately this will end up meaning that a lot of girls, and bi guys will end up thinking, well thats alright, as long as I dont get with an IV drug user or a gay guy, then I dont really have to worry.

When thats not what it means at all, there are far more bi guys than gay ones, and most of them in are in the closet, on the down low, especially around the girls, they aint going to tell you they are bi

So this guy was an IV drug user, and you have no idea whether he is bi or not, and you'll probably go on to say. "Oh no, he's not into guys he's not girly in anyway ???" Or he's too butch for that???

All this stuff happens cos of this pretend act everyone puts on. The reality is half of them dont care where they stick it, or who sucks them off. There are far more bi guys than you are ever led to believe. And in the end what are you risking your quality of life for? Sometimes a whole 2 mins of passion and a whole lot of your own assumptions that are incorrect.

Protection EVERY SINGLE TIME

 

I know the difference between men that have sex with men and gay men. That's like saying that since I'm into girls I'm a lesbian, when really I'm into men, women, and the transgendered. Not just chicks. And that thought process never even came into my mind when we were gonna fuck. Though, for the record, he's completely straight.

 

Hmmm, ok I try it another way then.

If he has issues with using condoms thats a quick and easy test, automatically cuts him out of guys that would fall into that category of top performers

Then why risk it? Especially whilst things are still semi casual and not exclusive, risk future quality of life for 5 mins of so so passion?

You are obviously into him, he's cool in some way, gets you gushy. But you also said he was your first, or his friend was and just him as well so far. There shouldnt be any excuse for not using condoms.

While you are still young, hunt for one of those top performers, the type of guy where he doesnt hesistate when using a condom, knows he needs to eliminate any worry you may have so you can concentrate on the task at hand, the type of guy that will make you head spin for a month afterwards... get with one of those and this guy will look like an amateur

But unsafe sex, never ever, there shouldnt be any reason, any excuse what so ever just tells you they aint up to the task anyway

 

you are the master of your own vagina

and decided not to use protection

so why feel betrayed???

 

You are a grade A idiot and a liar.

Perhaps you don't mean to be a liar, but you are most definitely one. You jump back and forth between trying to say you didnt think about it, to you thought it was okay.

You didn't think... You used alchohol as an excuse to do something that you shouldn't have.

The grade A idiot part...

A guy knows he has an std, he knowingly fucks you without protection OR warning... and you think he has your back and you love him?

There is no other way to describe a person who has said the things you have....

He should have told you up front about having hep (or any other diseases he may have) and insisted that nothing happen while you were drunk. I am pretty sure that he can be charged if he knowingly engaged in unprotected sex without protection or warning knowing he had an std.

That doesnt change the simple fact that you are an idiot...

The fact that you claim he has your back and cares about you, after doing this, demonstrates that for everyone to see.

 

id still fuck her..