Financial Dependency in a Relationship...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by mudpuddle, Aug 1, 2007.

  1. mlee27

    mlee27 Member

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    just block my posts if i have upset you that much
     
  2. mudpuddle

    mudpuddle MangaHippiePornStar Lifetime Supporter

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    I just Find...Person with Lame User Name and pms-ing Badly...Being very Argumentative...

    I Her Nicely Not to Post...

    And I Ask Her Not to Post in Here as I Feel this Thread is being Swamped with Her Argumentative...Non-Helpful Replies...
     
  3. mlee27

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    in your opinion my views and opinions haven't helped you, understandable from someone who chooses to attack ANOTHER POSTER BY MAKING FUN OF MY "LAME USER NAME".whether your asking nicely or not i can respond to any post in this forum that i want..it takes two to argue so stop responding to what i am writing.......grow up wifey....
     
  4. mudpuddle

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    You are Catholic...It Figures...

    I Do Not want your Opinions...

    I Started this Thread...About my Relationship...
    And I will Respond to Every Post Regarding my Relationship...

    If you Have Nothing Nice to Say...Lady...Then be Quiet and move on...
     
  5. mlee27

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    now you resort to discrimination.... not surprising.i am simply here as you are to offer advice.you posted a thread for people to respond to,if you only want peopele to respond in your favor maybe you should clarify that in your orginal post...i cannot believe you had the nerve to incorporate discrimination in your post.....but staying on topic....i still think that while it is very nice for your lover to offer to take care of you, you should try to also help monetarily, it's only right ot help financially seeing as you will be living there too....plus wouldn't you get bored not doing anything but waitng for your partner to come home?
     
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    make sure in your next post you clarify " catholics needs not post here " and what my religion is i don't think matters for i never offered advice under any scripture or catholic bibilical quote....not sure what you meant about being catholic...it figures....
     
  7. mudpuddle

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    mlee27...

    Have the Thread...

    It's Yours...

    You've Swamped it Enough...

    Bye...
     
  8. mlee27

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    also from now on when you do make a post be sure and reiiterate that "catholics need not respond " my religion should not be a factor in your reasoning for me not agreeing with you, i have never tried to use biblical quotes or proverbs in any of my posts.nor do i intend too....just thought i would make that abundantly clear for you...
     
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    Not Sure What the Hell Happened to my Post...

    But you Can Have this Thread mlee...

    Bye!
     
  10. Piney

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    Hey Mud, most places its easy enough to find a job, bring your work visa!
     
  11. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    As far as I'm concerned, others can butt the hell out of your financial situations within your relationship. Currently the love of my life and I have fallen upon hard times with lack of transportation and such, so only I've been able to hold a job (because my parents give me a ride to and from work every day), and while the extra income would be nice, I honestly don't mind. He takes care of the house and works on various projects while I'm only at work around 6 hours most days, so I really enjoy all the time we get to spend together because we're not both working constantly. What matters is not what others think or money at all, but whether or not you're happy. I say take any chance you can to be with your love and worry about money once you get over to the USA. Jobs aren't terribly hard to obtain and I'm sure you'll be just fine.
     
  12. mlee27

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    it's a thread .she expressed angst about the situation and that is why people responded.secondly coming from another country isn't as easy as getting on a plane and arriving. if she even considers working she will need a work visa, which usually only is in effect for a few months.thirdly while everyone in the free world would prefer to live on love alone, realistically speaking love doesn't pay the bills....
     
  13. Kinky Ramona

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    I wasn't exactly speaking to you or anyone but Mud, and I wasn't attacking anyone for sharing their opinion, just sharing my own experience. And I pay bills, I buy food, I support both myself and my significant other, but it's really no one else's job to get angry at him or anyone else without a job as long as they're not bumming off the government and taxpayers' money. Love doesn't pay the bills, but I have a job that does, and that's really the only issue.
     
  14. Piney

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    Mud. people loooove British accents accross the pond. Surely there is a public relations or telephone job just begging for you to apply for!
     
  15. mlee27

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    you said others should butt the hell out of your financial situation, i may have been confused?
     
  16. Kinky Ramona

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    Well, I'm talking about others who nose around in it and judge us, not people whose business I make it by telling about it. The people at my work and our neighbors were especially people I had in mind. I was just telling Mud that it's no one's business anyway how she and Willow decide to live their lives, make their money, or spend it.
     

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