first time anal sex help!!

Until I met my boyfriend I never wanted to try anal. I had boyfriends that were interested but I never was. The trick is take your time and make it fun. We started in the shower and he would just play with my ass until I told him to stop. Eventally he was able to get me relaxed enough to put his cock in my ass and now I love it. We use butt plugs, dildos, and butt beads all the time. I have the most intense orgasms from it and I used to always swear I would never do it.

 

This is how A LOT of women are in all honesty. It's not an insult, I can see the fear behind it. You are scared it will hurt, or it'll be messy or something along those lines. I totally understand why women would want to avoid something like this.

The problem is that most guys are not properly educated on how to have anal sex. So they treat the ass just like the pussy and just try to shove their dry rock hard dicks into a girls ass. And what happens, it hurts the girl like hell and she may go years before another anal attempt if ever. And then she goes and tells her friends how painful it was and to never try it. That's how bad rumors get started.

Guys are at fault because they watch porn as their main source of anal education. They just try and use a little spit and put their cock up there, not knowing that the girl in the porn is pretty much an anal athlete, not an average girl. Those girls in porn train their asses to be able to take those big cocks. Not to mention there is a lot of movie magic behind the scenes that goes on that just makes it "appear" as though they just stick it in their ass with some spit. What they didn't see was behind the scenes her ass was getting warmed up by rimming, fingering, and toys before the actual penetration took place.

Anal is one of those things that it needs to be taken slowly and progressively. If anal is rushed, it will be a disaster for sure. I love women, I was raised by my great aunt, mother, grand mother, and older sister. I have a firm respect for women, so when I wanted to do anal with my girlfriend, I considered everything that was needed in order to make it a pleasurable experience not for just me but for her mainly. Because if I have a bad experience it's okay, but if she has a bad experience it hurts.

Guys need to properly educate themselves on how to have anal BEFORE they actually attempt such an act. What guys need to do is stick a cock sized object in their asses, and see how it feels to have something forced in there with no preparation, and see how painful it is. Once you have a healthy respect for the discomfort, you will be a lot less likely to go plowing away at some poor girls ass without proper education and preparation.

Respect and education is what's needed to make anal a successful and pleasurable experience.

 

use lots of lube!

 

The key to anal sex is in the mind. Anal intercourse requires much physical and mental preparation. The girl must first want it in her mind before she takes it in the butt. Once she does, she becomes far more marriage material.

 

When you are lying in bed just watching tv and not going to have sex, have her take her panties off and lie on her stomach. Then just lie there and rub her but and the hole. Use fingertips and do it for a while. After she gets confortable she will like it. Its really relaxing. Do this often. Then, after a while, start using some hand creme on your fingers and rub all around, your thumb and fingers will start to go in easily, but just press a little and go in a little. You will feel things start to open up. Follow this for a while and keep doing more and more and you will get there. The key is to get her relaxed and very used to it.

Your big problem is that this rubbing and tickleing will get you aroused every time.

 

many women hate anal sex but many men like and have tried anal fucking . i had anal sex with my partner just 2 times during past years.

 

Many girls hate anal because many guys don't know how to do it right, and it hurts them. I can't say I would blame them.

Guys need to get their education on how to correctly relax that ass.

 

awww man the first time i had anal with my boyfriend it hurt so much!!
we were stupid and i told him just to put it in there quickly not a good idea
And the second time he really relaxed me and we had great anal sex
BE GENTAL GUYS WITH YOUR GIRLS WHEN HAVING ANAL SEX..
TREAT HER BUTT LIKE YOU WOULD WITH YOUR SACK.

 

Exactly, you need to be gentle with that ass, at least at first, when she is nice and relaxed, you will be pounding the shit out of her ass in no time.

 

hahahah..''pounding that shit''
NICE