Forgiving a Cheater....Can You Do This??

forest_pixie84 · Mar 13, 2005

BrownTripleQQ said:

For me cheating is the ultimate sin. It is the one thing that I won't forgive or forget. Once, I have been cheated on the specialness of the relationship is gone and so am I. For many of my friends this is not the case though. They have forgiven their lover's infidelties and chosen to stay together. Why would anyone choose to stay with a partner who has defiled the sanctity of their /relationship marriage?

Forgiving a Cheater. Which is worse? Cheating of the heart or Cheating of the body? Can you forgive a cheater? Why?
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It's not cheating if it's an open relationship or just casual dating.

Otherwise, no. If two people truly want to be with only each other, the want to cheat won't be there.

feministhippy · Mar 13, 2005

Right now, I really don't want to be in a monogamous relationship where that kind of thing would matter.

Soulless||Chaos · Mar 13, 2005

This is such a tough question.. How could you not forgive someone you love(d)? But how can you believe that they love you..? In other words, I have no idea whether I could/would..

mystical_shroom · Mar 14, 2005

BrownTripleQQ said:

For me cheating is the ultimate sin. It is the one thing that I won't forgive or forget. Once, I have been cheated on the specialness of the relationship is gone and so am I. For many of my friends this is not the case though. They have forgiven their lover's infidelties and chosen to stay together. Why would anyone choose to stay with a partner who has defiled the sanctity of their /relationship marriage?

Forgiving a Cheater. Which is worse? Cheating of the heart or Cheating of the body? Can you forgive a cheater? Why?
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I have been cheated on, and the first guy that cheated on me, I forgave, but it wasnt long until he did it again So, I dont know if I could forgive someone who cheated on me, it would just all depend basically, like if we were married, had kids, who it was with, how many times, the circumstances all come into play...

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