Gay sex behind my wifes back

4yrs, thats preschool age, most social development comes from interacting with peers. And they are learning at 4/5 times the rate an adult can, so they are usually outsmarting the parents at that age. Most of the stuff you experience under the age of 5 you wont consciously remember

Parents lie to their kids all the time, to protect their innocence, to try influence their behaviour. Partners and family lie to each other all the time.

You do it too. You're lying if you say you've never lied to your wife or family

 

Why the assumption she didnt know?


It Goes public, boo hoo, I'm the victim, nice little divorce settlement

Due to the pressure of public opinion is going to have to go down that path eitherway, whether she did or did not know or 'strongly suspected'

The alternative is sticking by her man and having every other gal, her parents at her - what the f are you doing?.

Doesnt actually mean she didnt know

 

I think the OP is a bit crazy - taping pics of his wife to his back etc.

No relationship is going anywhere or worth having if one or the other are lying so thorougly to each other.

And I tend to agree re. kids - if the atmosphere is going to be so bad between the parents then they are better off staying with just one.

It wouldn't be a problem if they are open to each other, open up the marriage and stay together - then it could work fine for the kids.

Just my thoughts,

Simon :sunny:

 

Excuse the rant.

I had a friend who met and smoked pot with John Walker Lind before he went to the Middle East. He was a kid who felt disillusioned with the American lifestyle and was looking for a more fulfilling life. What he had read in the Quraan made sense to him so he went to the Middle East. At the time he hooked up with Al Queda they were being trained and supplied by the United States government. This is what pisses me off about the Propaganda machine that is the News Media in the United States. We only get as much of the story as is pertinent for the official party line and are then told it is for "National Security".

Now as for the OP. I hate to sound like a Neocon here but if what you say is true you deserve what you get. Just as if you were straight you would get what you deserve. It is the second law of thermodynamics: For every action there is a reaction. Having indescriminate sex and lying to your wife has almost no chance of ending well. The way you talk about it makes you sound like an Egocentric asshole. I think the best thing for you to do is to extricate yourself from the situation before you do any lasting damage to your wife (STD's, STI's, general rage etc.).

Chances if this goes to Divorce Court her lawyer could make a strong argument for her taking all of your shit and you never seeing your daughter again. What you are doing is putting your entire lifestyle that you have built for yourself at risk. Since you don't seem to give 2 shits about your wife think about the repercussions it could have on you.

Have fun living in a van down by the river.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Do you really want to try this shit with me?

I don't lie to my family... ever... is that clear enough for you?

Go through the threads, read the one about christmas, read damn near every other post I have made...

Just because you lie to everyone apparently, all the time, does NOT mean everyone is as you are.

If you are a dishonest lying person, fine, you are, no problem... do not assume that means everyone else has such a low opinion of their own word.

 

Well, as I said before, you think you are angry now, wait till you work out what the female version of this is.....thats if you ever do



Theres always two sides to the coin. You all can get angry, beat your chest, shout over everyone. You can use the word Gay, Try and blame this kind of stuff on us. The girls arent going to believe you. Its not really hard to work out

[sarcasm] Because thats what we do, all the effort to keep in shape look good dress smart, it isnt to attract the other hot gay guys, its so we can hang around in book stores and wait till we get hit on by overweight married guys in dark glasses and raincoats who will take us home and imagine we are the wife[/sarcasm]

All this time and effort trying to convince them you are an upstanding guy, when they have to think all men are pigs anyway, and they have to think that way so they feel better about their freakyiness, or that you all run around playing with each others rods anyway - cos the thought of that gets them excited. All the time and effort trying to convince everyone that you're a good faithful husband only for everyone in the end to think you are a dirty old man cos you've only been with the one girl for so long.

And the entire time suckered into thinking they are made of sugar and spice and all things nice, played using the dont be mean to girls card. With no idea about their freaky stuff even though its pretty obvious if you dont let that gynormous male ego blind you.

Blame us if you need to, we are such a small minority anyway, so we arent really going to bother to argue. Call me morally bankrupt if thats whats needed to hide the truth. Doesnt matter, if you are too chicken to be honest with your self, too worried about what everyone else thinks when you have no idea what they really think, well then you deserve to be played

 

With you in the thread, it's not particularly surprising. You're obsessed with gender and gender roles. Every thread about relationships you seem to conveniently turn into one about how nasty/selfish/dysfunctional either women or straight couples can be. Anyone with any sense would avoid taking your comments on these themes as serious points for in-depth discussion, because the chip on your shoulder is clearly massive.