Genuine or played?...Please help!

The worst thing you can do is ignore him. Ugh. That`s so cowardly. Tell him you want to quit and that he should stop calling. Tell him exactly why. Tell him you are sorry, but no more chances. If he insists, block him, notify the cops, get a restraining order. Whatever you need to do to protect your space.

You seem like a cool girl, but you`re talking the talk, and not walking the walk. Just like him...

The whole "I`d be open to a relationship", seems to me like a roundabout way of being exclusive. And, that`s why you took so much shit from him to begin with because you know you can get another fuck buddy in thirty minutes flat by walking around the block in a mini-skirt and high heels.

Now, you`re giving him shit, rather than make a clear cut decision. I think you really have to decide what you want first. And, that will also vary from guy to guy.

 

I took this advice and replied to him bc he said grow some balls reply and tell me you've moved on. I told him why I'm ignoring and dumped him cold turky. I wish I didn't reply now, he's playing the I don't know what you're talking about I don't know what I've done game. He's also tried to turn the tables and said I was using him. He said he thinks I want a relationship. If that's what I wanted I'd be upfront. I said I'm not looking for a relationship he can see who he wants. I don't want the commitment right now..and as far as I'm concerned commitment is the internal organs of a relationship. I simply wanted friendship and respect not to be just used. I'm wondering of he gets it and is playing games or he seriously is trying with this. Want to keep him as a fwb because when we do talk we connect and the sex is amazing but this drama is driving me away. If I'm doing something wrong please tell me!!

 

You did not take my advice if you`re trying to keep him or convince him of anything. The conversations should be over by now. Block him. Report him. If the drama is continuing, the responsibility is all yours.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdmFMIXwDVs

 

Fair enough. I shouldn't have responded and given him the opportunity. Well he knows now and I'll leave it alone. I keep giving someone the bloody benefit that's my problem

 

I wish you luck. You`ve earned some of my respect, for what it`s worth.

Now, wish me luck, because I have to deal with this total fucking BITCH!!! at work tomorrow.

 

Sounds like you need to vent Cherea...what's got ya down at work?

 

I'm trying to find his post but I'm fairly new and still trying to find my way around here. I'd like to help if I can so I can give back to someone who's made time for me

 

Btw I'm finding it hard he's trying to take me out which is pretty much what I wanted in the first place but I think he's only doing it because he knows I'm done with him. The communication is only one way. I guess I'm naieve not even realising I was being used until everyone told me :-/

 

oh man...case closed. you move on bright.....and keep moving till you find what you want..than move together.

 

Lol.. Point taken

 

@ bright

 

Thanks, sweetie. I actually had an excellent day at work, because the aforementioned bitch is forever gone. And who chased her out? Me. Now, who`s your daddy?

*sigh of relief*

 

Good job babe! x