getting in trouble, because of fuckin a 13 year old girl

whoa, slow down there cowboy... I just made a little comment, didnt know someone was going to go make a speech about it..
And I am no baby..haha, well, maybe sometimes I am.. but arent we all..

 

There are two reasons why 13 year old girls who are fucking, are usually getting done by men quite a bit older than they are.

1st -- because 13 year old boys aren't old enough to do anything right , and are still playing computers games about 19 hours a day.

2nd -- because for many young girls the love they are looking for is really a substitute for love from Daddy that they are not getting. I don't mean anything unnatural. They are substituting sexual love for paternal love, but they often end up spreading for older men, as a result.


There is one very good reason for staying away from 13 year olds, and the title says it all -- Big Trouble with The Law!

When you go to jail for it, I hear the Bubba's look on you as a special treat.

 

ok first of all, the illegality of having some pot, and the illegality of fucking some teen is completely different. They are illegal for different reasons. Having sex with a child is illegal because it can cause teen pregnancy and harm to her person, not to mention the mental problems it can cause. but nevertheless, I've been caught with weed and I take my punishment as it comes to me, and I don't complain and try to get sympathy for myself. Why should anyone else care or feel sorry for me that I'm getting what I knew I could if I get caught.

So I personally cannot give any sympathy to the person who started this thread. He chose the action and the consequense. You need to take it like a man.

I will not call you disgusting or an idiot or anything that anyone else has said. YOu do not deserve to be berated because I'm sure that everyone that posted insults has been in trouble for doing something stupid. But look at what your behavior has gotten you. Nothing but trouble and shit, right? so change it. All I can say is that you really need to spend some time learning about yourself and what you want in life and make some changes to get there. You want to do drugs? Reward yourself in college with a lot of partying when you work hard to make it there. Do it on weekends. Just be smart about things and not so egotistical in yout thinking that you won't get caught.

I think a good rule of thumb would be if you don't even have a place to have sex with a girl, don't do it. I'm sure the shed wasn't really on her top romantic spot list. Wait until you're old and mature enough to have sex, and make sure the girl you are fucking is old enough too. If you get caught, you have to deal with it.

Good luck

 

at 13, no-one is physically or emotionally mature enough to deal with a sexual relationship. Fair enough, there are some girls (and boys) that may look older than they are externally...but inside their adultlike bodies, their organs are still inmature, not fuctioning as an adult. I read somewhere that girls achieve full maturity of their internal sexual organs by the age of 18....having the period every month doesnt mean that they're fully grown women!

besides all this, i dont think is healthy for a young girl to become sexually active at sucj a young age...I'm talking about my experience here. I got myself into really bizarre situations cos of my desire to "grow up" and be an adult!...anyway...the thing is if you want to get a girlfriend, at least make sure that she's of legal age and mature enough to handle the situation.

 

Well, actually.. i was watching pbs one time and a child development show was on, it was on the subject of pueberty. the reason the 13 year olds go out with the 20 year olds is cause they reach pueberty before boys and gain interest in that, and the ones their age are usually not mature enough socially.. i think that explains it.

 

sorry i have to be the one to say it. i dont think the kid did anything wrong. the only reason that law exists is so that only cops or rich people with laywers can. the dudes not a pedofile . . first of all he's only 16, second a pedofile is someone who sleeps with children. thats typically described as 12 and under. 13 is hardly a child. cut the dude some slack. bro i doubt you'll get into any trouble, im not sure how youre legal system works . . .but if you go before a judge, he'll see that you didnt rape her, or intimidate her(at least i hope you didnt) an theyll ket you go.

 

I have to disagree. Even if he meant no harm (and I'm sure he didn't) he had sex with a girl in a shed for God's sake because he's not old enough to have someone in his bed. at 13 even if the girl wants it and is willing to have sex, that doesn't mean that she is ready to be in a sexual relationship. Hell, it sounds like this 16 year old guy isn't ready! He broke the law. He should be punished. When I'm doing something illegal, first of all I'm safe about it, and if I happen to get arrested, I take my punishment like an adult. (though I've never been arrested, just a few tickets) The law exists to protect young children that are not ready to have sex. Here in America, children under 18 are prohibited from having sex for many reasons. It causes pregnancy, which leads to abortion and children that cannot be taken care of properly. Thier future is shot unless they have wonderful rich parents to hire a nanny to raise your child while they go to school. Teens' reputations are ruined. Girls learn to use sex as a weapon to get what they want from men. They get STD's.They get heartbroken and feel used when the relationship doesn't work out. Adults can handle these situations but what do these kids do? They have to go to their parents and have them handle it. If you can't get yourself out of a situaton, you shouldn't get yourself into it in the first place.


it sounds like this kid has enough to get straight in his life without a sexual relationship to add more drama

 

i really cant disagree with your arguments. im just glad that youre finally 18 seriously though, no one is ever really ready to handle the emotional repercusions from sex, especially if there is no love involved. i couldnt see myself being with a woman unless i could see myself with her the rest of my life. and as soon as i think that i absolutely cant be with her forever, thats when i brake off the relationship. of course, im cronically single . . . oh well, all im saying is that its not as bad as he thinks, and its not as bad as the law thinks. me personally the love has to be there, and if it is there and she's not old enough . . . well i already made that mistake once and it still crushes me, so if it happens again, i wont let the law get in my way if it means a chance at happiness. cus there comes a time when if you dont, theres plenty of people who will, but they might not have the same feelins about love that i do.

 

2 things:


1. Thank fuck you live in Munchen (bitte sag nicht das du nicht IN Munchen wohnt, aber in einer Vorort. Also Bayern ist zu streng).

2. Secondly, a wise woman said to me once:

(puts on Jamacan accent)

"If yurr, goin tu do sumting stupid, be VEERRRY careful abowtit."

Blessings

Sebbi

 

I was 11 I think when I got mine....and I started developing early too. I think I was 9 when my chest decided that I was old enough to take on one.... I'm a 38A now....

 

too bad youre too old for me

 

I barely knew what a penis was when i was 13.... whatever loats your boat

 

when i was 14 i got in trouble for having sex with my boyfriend who was 12. it was the same situation as yours, i did not rape him, he's the one who talked me into it, but still i was the one who got in trouble. Also 2 of my friends are in jail for similar reasons. I feel for ya man.

 

work out before jail dude, it's not kindly looked upon, sorry to be blunt but i don't sugar coat.

 

lol i hope the bubbas find out what your in there for, its completely true that youll get singled out for fucking a young girl.

 

"whoa, slow down there cowboy... I just made a little comment, didnt know someone was going to go make a speech about it..
And I am no baby..haha, well, maybe sometimes I am.. but arent we all.."

***i know they're different, but your blame is in the wrong place. that's what i was trying to say. don't blame sex. blame the way people have twisted around a natural and beautiful union of two bodies and minds. the way they've made it seem like a huge deal, made it a taboo that puts un-natural pressures on a natural thing. as long as neither one of them felt pressured, as long as they both wanted to do it, and as long as he wore a condom, what's the problem? as for the baby comment, there's a very big difference staying young and sucking teet.***




"ok first of all, the illegality of having some pot, and the illegality of fucking some teen is completely different. ***[If you had've paid more attention, you'd see I said that I know they are very different, but I was just trying to get you to see it from a different perspective]***They are illegal for different reasons. Having sex with a child is illegal because it can cause teen pregnancy and harm to her person, not to mention the mental problems it can cause.***[I said they should wear a condom, and if neither of them is pressured or pressuring the other one, it won't involve mental or physical harm]*** but nevertheless, I've been caught with weed and I take my punishment as it comes to me, and I don't complain and try to get sympathy for myself. Why should anyone else care or feel sorry for me that I'm getting what I knew I could if I get caught.***[It's illegality is no justification for it's illegality. just because it's illegal doesn't mean it should be. what kind of defeatest attitude is that? I'm not saying you should complain to everyone about it, but tell me how else could we positively evolve our ways of life without letting it known that it's unjust, without anybody's sympathy]***

So I personally cannot give any sympathy to the person who started this thread. He chose the action and the consequense. You need to take it like a man.

I will not call you disgusting or an idiot or anything that anyone else has said. YOu do not deserve to be berated because I'm sure that everyone that posted insults has been in trouble for doing something stupid. But look at what your behavior has gotten you. Nothing but trouble and shit, right? so change it. All I can say is that you really need to spend some time learning about yourself and what you want in life and make some changes to get there. You want to do drugs? Reward yourself in college with a lot of partying when you work hard to make it there. Do it on weekends. Just be smart about things and not so egotistical in yout thinking that you won't get caught.***[who are you to tell him to give in to the legal system? have you never heard of civil disobedience? i'm not telling him to do that though, i don't believe in telling people what to do. socratic teaching makes alot more sense to me.]***

I think a good rule of thumb would be if you don't even have a place to have sex with a girl, don't do it. I'm sure the shed wasn't really on her top romantic spot list. Wait until you're old and mature enough to have sex, and make sure the girl you are fucking is old enough too. If you get caught, you have to deal with it."

"I have to disagree. Even if he meant no harm (and I'm sure he didn't) he had sex with a girl in a shed for God's sake because he's not old enough to have someone in his bed. at 13 even if the girl wants it and is willing to have sex, that doesn't mean that she is ready to be in a sexual relationship. Hell, it sounds like this 16 year old guy isn't ready! He broke the law. He should be punished. When I'm doing something illegal, first of all I'm safe about it, and if I happen to get arrested, I take my punishment like an adult. (though I've never been arrested, just a few tickets) The law exists to protect young children that are not ready to have sex. Here in America, children under 18 are prohibited from having sex for many reasons. It causes pregnancy, which leads to abortion and children that cannot be taken care of properly. Thier future is shot unless they have wonderful rich parents to hire a nanny to raise your child while they go to school. Teens' reputations are ruined. Girls learn to use sex as a weapon to get what they want from men. They get STD's.They get heartbroken and feel used when the relationship doesn't work out. Adults can handle these situations but what do these kids do? They have to go to their parents and have them handle it. If you can't get yourself out of a situaton, you shouldn't get yourself into it in the first place.***[it is exactly because sex has been warped into a taboo like this that causes any mental problems, as for physical, ie. pregnancy and stds, that's what condoms are for. do you believe morals are objective or subjective?]***


it sounds like this kid has enough to get straight in his life without a sexual relationship to add more drama***[you assume much about a stranger]***

 

When I was 20, I had a 14 year-old girl hit on me sexually. I didn't take her up on her numerious offers, despite being attracted to her, for 2 reasons; one: fear of the law (because she had just been moved to a foster home and the foster parents found a love note she wrote to me) and two: because I realized pretty quickly that she was looking for a substitute father because she had never known hers, and her mother was an abusive drunken slut who could care less if she lived or died.

So I just avoided her, didn't even offer an explaination out of fear of being seen with her, and in the end I hurt her feelings pretty badly. And a year later, she went out and slept with a guy her own age who got her knocked up then dumped her.

At least *I* would have used protection and cared her as a person...

But hey, at least the *law* wasn't broken, right?

 

when i was 16 i dated a 13 year old for a while, she was constantly trying to get down my pants. 3 weeks go by and i finally feel up her titties for her, and she dumps me a few days later....found out she had given head to two of my buddies while we were going out. 13 year olds can be little hussies its not that bad, the only reason i kept my dick in my pants is because im very disciplined about such things, 98 percent of other men would stuck it in her....its hard to say no to a chick begging for your cock.

 

Whatever, man. You can disagree, but if you think any 13 year old girl in society today is ready to have sex- you go ahead and fuck 'em!

No wonder girls today are so slutty.I don't care. All I have to worry about is MY body and dignity.

 

12 years? wow. It don't think that's deserved! I think it's wrong but not THAT severe if both parties are consenting!

great govermnment we've got