Getting your gf to give head

I'm in the same boat. Haven't had a Bj in ten years. With holding sex won't work (I can't last long without) . I won't with hold eating out because I like to do it. I get the "I might surprise you one day" line, but I'm not gonna kid myself. If she's not into it you won't enjoy it. I just gave up.
Fuck I miss Bj's. Good luck to ya mate

 

Buy her some masque thingies! I have lots of 'em and I don't need 'em! I buy stuff on impulse and I really have no use for them. They're like flavored strips meant to cover up the taste for 15 minutes..

 

Lol... you give her oral but she won't reciprocate?

Tell her to **** off! I'd never be willing to accept that.

Relationships are a two way street and there will usually need to be compromises to keep both sides happy. Sounds like she's just self-involved and doesn't really care much about you, there are many ways to mitigate the smell/taste.

I've never been too fond of going down on a girl - but I still like doing it because it brings her pleasure. We make it better for each other by having a shower before - usually being in the shower together and starting off like that, it's a pleasurable time and we both get the opportunity to wash each other if we really want to. Although we certainly trust each other enough so we don't need that.

She wasn't all that keen on or even all that good at giving head when I met her.

But... she knew it was something I wanted & she wanted to please me... so I effectively trained her - now she gives me the best head I've ever had (and I've had in excess of 100 partners) and most importantly - she LOVES doing it. For a long time I haven't even had to ask for one - she'll just do it when she feels like it, which is usually every other session. She enjoys her own taste too, so quite frequently we'll start off like that & finish like that - she even likes the taste and swallows... massive ego boost

She also taught me how she best likes to be pleased (every woman is different).

This state with her would never have happened without good communication. We know we can tell each other anything & it'll be fine. It's wonderful having a relationship where there are absolutely no secrets - nothing is hidden.

We're even exploring polyamoury - something she never thought she'd go for & she's rather enjoying the company of other women.

Good sex is such an important part of a relationship - I would not be in a relationship with anyone not willing to play around - it would end and I would find what I needed elsewhere.