Girlfriend doesn't come

GentleBen, will you have an affair with me twice a year behind Robyn's back?


...threw that in to go with the flow ..lol

 

I have a soft touch you know, ladies..

 

^ lol

oh, well, shit, ...since you put it that way, I am sure I can slot you in around Ben if your up for it.

 

Careful Ivana, i've been hurt before

 

awww *passes band-aids*

 

he he hey thanks for the offer - I think my partner would kill me.

I read a book when I was eighteen, which was probably the best thing I could have read it gave me the enough informatiion to get a women to orgasm.

A partner supprised me one day and said that last night she had an orgasm, at the time I thought it was not bad but nothing like the one I had one night with another partner.

The fourth orgasm that I experienced was like nothing else I had experienced it was awesome.

I remember thinking just how amazing it was when I skimmed the water off her back and it splashed onto my face - in compete amazement.

And the strange pounding of her heart like a tiny tin drum beating in her chest followed by the deadly quietness afterwards.

And to top it off the amount of time that had transpired, I could not believe it was morning until I went outside and the sun was just breaking over the horizon - it came to me in seconds that we had had sex from 8PM till 6AM how could this have happended ?

Keep striving for orgasm it really is an amazing experience that will leave you feeling alive and comeplete.

 

No thats not nice !!

Affairs become a lot more permanent when the pleasure is so intense.

Its a drug like no other which leaves you just wanting more.

 

I wouldn't do anything that would hurt a women intentionally, if you're smart enough maybe you can find the right guy that genuinely loves you enough to want to spend the time on you to get you to that place that I believe is rare.

I share my knowledge in the hope that other couples can learn how to achieve orgasm for themselves and enriched their lives beyond what they realise.

Like they say the best things in life are free.

GB.

 

NBC, it kinda depends on her age, how comfortable she is with her own sexuality, her body; there's all kind of factors that could effect an orgasm. For women, the orgasm is mostly controlled by the mind. If she's not totally relaxed and at ease, it won't happen. Women worry about things like: "Do I look fat?", "Does my breath smell bad?", "Did I remember to pay the cable bill?" The only thing on her mind should be how good she feels at that moment.

 

It's only when you realise that the guy is thinking the same thing about himself, OMG is my penis big enough or too big, oh no i have a pot gut, oh no i'm a crap lover ....

People worry so much about their body's that its really kills the moment.

Like I have said I believe it's mostly about the amount and the affectivness of the foreplay.

If you erroneously believe that grinding the clitoral hood is going to work ask your self why you think that ?

This is where people think they have orgasm in movies when really its just an act.

And a very poor act mostly.

Believe it or not an orbital sander is just not going to work.

 

I would ask if she has ever masturbated to orgasm? If so, she should be able to tell you how to do it. If not, she should be encouraged to try it and to just keep going until she cums. Then she can show you what she did to take her over the edge without becoming too sensitive.

On the other hand, make sure you are using plenty of lubricant on your fingers. Perhaps she is having sensitivity to your fingers if they are irritating her clit.

 

chortle.

 

That even sounds erotic ...

 

Ah-hah! you say her clit is waaay too sensitive? this solution is for both of you: she has to, like sweetblasphemy suggested, spend some time getting romantic with herself. DO NOT resort to toys right away! they can spoil a woman!! she has to get familiar with what does the trick for her. and it may take a while but once she gets used to having attention paid to her clit, it's going to open up a new world of possibilities for you. trust me. the clit is key!

i have NEVER had an orgasm from just penetration alone. lots of women don't. just take it slow, and it will come.

 

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Fear not, I believe I have a small solution. My clit is also very sensitive. My husband always tries to manhandle the damn thing and it pisses me off and ruins the mood because I tell him over and over it's too sensitive. But when he goes at it again he things that by "oversensitive" I mean overload on the senses, so he thinks that if he keeps doing it I'll be "forced" to have an amazing overwhelming orgasm, rather than the shocking pain I really feel. His tongue also doesn't feel good. The little bud is just too sensitive, and this is common in many women. There's a trick to dealing with an oversensitive clitorous. Let me teach you some tricks. First of all, explore the area of the clitorous you'll see that the clitorous rests in a little "nook." There's a tiny little hood over it an everything. Ask her to let you examine her, it'll be worth it. You'll notice that the clitorous sticks up a bit, almost like a rising slope from the top center of her outer lips right through the center to the clit. Rub your finger from side to side just above that hooded clit. You'll have to press down a bit to feel it, but you should feel a sort of ridge that sticks out seemingly from the bone. If you continue to move your finger side to side over that thin ridge just above the clit, she'll climax. Sometimes you have to do it closer to the clit, and sometimes just a bit further up. Depends on the woman's likes. Sometimes softer is better, but usually not. Make sure you can feel the ridge with every sideways stroke. You can also move your finger in a small circle over the ridge. It's quite delightful. Just don't touch the actual clit. While you do this, you can use your other hand to move your fingers inside her, or even more daringly, to rub her ass hole. Don't put your finger inside, just rub the outside of the hole. She'll be alarmed at first, but there are so many nerves right there that it'll double her chances of climaxing if you do it while you use your fingers on that ridge above her clit. The ridge moves a bit, so don't be alarmed. It's more like a flap. You'll feel it bend a little with each sideways stroke. Don't be alarmed, that's what feels good. It's a sort of second clitorous if you will, when if comes to having an orgasm and your clit is too sensitive. So let her allow you to explore her. If she is self-conscious, which is what I gather from her lack of enjoyment from oral, then watching you do this will not help. She will be too focused on whether you are not enjoying being so close to her private area. Blindfold her if you must. It's always a big help with self-conscious ladies so they can focus solely on feeling. And don't forget to constantly tell her how hot this is for you. Breathe raggedly. This is a big sign that you aren't unhappy with what you see, and it really helps ease the self-consciousness. Let me know how it goes for you.

 

*sigh* you're a bit on an idiot. There is no mistaking an orgasm. Oversensitivity is not an orgasm. Right after you orgasm, do you want to scrape your nails along the tip of your penis? That's what direct contact on a sensitive clitorous feels like.