Cruel for what? I tried to not tell him at first. But he would not let it go. He said I needed to be honest. I did not say it the way he’s putting it
My ex was bigger. I guess the lie was saying it wasn’t bigger and I kept trying to say idk if it was bigger because I didn’t want to hurt him. but like I said I told him that dosent matter at all tho. What matters is my feelings for him
I think your girl told you that to belittle you and kill your self esteem, she doesn't care about your feelings. I've personally experienced bigger guys and better sex with men of my past, but my husband is the man I love and I quickly learnt its not about the men who had a big dick and had wild sex with me and never cared about my well being , it's about the love my husband has, that after making love to me still wipes my vagina or ass, cuddles with me and I'd never choose a dick over this.