girls conlfuse me sometimes

me personally, i would stay away..Again, who's to say she wont do that again, ya know..

 

Shroom has stalked many a men to know that staying away from girls like her is the best option.

 

hahah, wtf bogs you only wish I stalked you Girls like me, pffft, im not like that If i mean to you, chances are, it will stay that way

 

a little input on this subject.. no one is perfect.. but what makes a friend a friend is knowing the good and the bad about someone and still loving them. i think that if you feel that you were ever really ever truly friends you should definitely give another chance.

 

when her behavior started i talked to her about it and it got better and then worse again... she started going with this guy after i asked her out.. she turned it me down... we still were friends though which was cool at the time.... its hard for me to trust people because in my life ive had a lot of people betray me... her boyfriend i dont think she is with him anymore... i think he was a drug.. i got a really bad vibe from him when i met him for the first time

 

so, when she didnt have a boyfriend you two were friends, she got one, then treated you like shit, and then since they are not together any more, shes being nice to you again...
I would just straight out ask her...thats they only way you will know for sure is if you ask her if anything was wrong, or what...

 

good idea

 

if girls only confuse you sometimes, then your not paying enough attention.

 

if you talked to her about it and it got better, but then worse again, that's probably a bad sign. even if she says things will be different, or have changed, you're not really going to know for sure if she's sencere. it seems like if someone consciously hurt you once, they'll do it again... and if she and her ex/boyfriend end up getting back together, i could see how she'd turn on you once again.

how is she mentally and emotionally? did she have any issues, like bi-polar disorder or compulsive lying?

how long did her bitchy behavior last? a few months? if you decide to be friends again, it might be a good idea to wait. now that she's sorry, you're probably feeling confused and relieved and all sorts of things... but perhaps you just need a month or so to really sort out & calm your thoughts and feelings. if she truly wants to be a friend again, she will understand and wait it out.

 

^^^ This. Although in this instance it seems that the issue is quite easy to resolve:

She kept you around while she was single so she didn't look like a desperate old spinster. She probably knew you had a crush on her and thus wouldn't abandon her first. Now she has a man, she doesn't need you anymore, and in fact needs you out of her life.

Not nice, but probably true.

 

theres really no saying how its gonna turn out unless you try it again...risks are a part of life....