i disagree, there's lots of ugly dudes that get plenty of chicks setting your standards low .. very low can help your "success rate"
maybe it's their glow and charisma they exude in real life.... or maybe it is their sincerity that shines through all things.... maybe it is a lot of things......
You Don't Live In A Muslim Country, If You Did You Would Have Been Stoned To Death For The Crap You Have Posted Here On "Hip Forums", So......Why Not Cut This "Circus" Short And.......PISS OFF.... That Way You Will Avoid The Shame Of Being Outed, And More Importantly " Boring Us To Tears"... ....... Cheers Glen.
^ Depends on your definition of a muslim country I guess. But yes, it is a secular society, not the most liberal (and maybe not even that liberal by most western standards ), but not one of the worst either. But especially where it comes to his problems with the ladies this does not matter at all. Except if he personally would make that the problem perhaps The problem is not even mainly how you view women as a whole, aszitat, but how you view yourself and what you seem to think how and what you should be. With your current self image you can only get a person as insecure as yourself, or someone that is desperate for a boyfriend/man. People like that get together all the time too, so maybe you can go that route so you don't have to hurt your brain about the advise that has been given. Since it seems it is not a matter of understanding it, but a matter of wanting to understand it first. I think you should reread all these threads of you about girls and really take notice of what people are telling you.
atsizat, do you mean you need to practice talking to girls that you find attractive? Is that why talking to big girls makes you feel like it's no better than talking to a man? I am just trying to understand. I don't know if it's the language barrier or what, but people are reacting the way they are because the way you are talking is coming off as extremely insensitive. I think you might need a few more English lessons and perhaps a class in etiquette so you can better understand what you are saying and how it sounds to us. However, if you talk to girls in your country the way you are describing things to us, then this might be your problem. Also, be aware that they can hear you talking to your male friends, too, so if you're saying these things out loud and they hear you, they will remember. It's difficult and lonely to be socially awkward, but the more frustrated and desperate you become, the more it puts people off. The more angry things you say out of bitterness, the more people will avoid you. It's good that you are trying to learn, but the way you communicate needs some serious attention. This is all assuming you aren't just screwing with us.
I am living in turkey, which is a muslim country. Internet is legal here, so is alcohol. It's not suudi arabia where I am living in. It's not as bad as suudi arabia if only suudi arabia comes to your mind when you hear of a muslim country.
it didn't work either. I was with a lab group which there were 2 males and 6 females inculuding me, I was talking to the male one, they were talking to each other . What a shame