girls who go off pill to have a baby

A friend of mine did that, she said to me after what she had done - if she had said it before i would have tried to talk her out of it, but now she has a baby she told her b/f what she had done and he said well yeah i wanted a kid anyway!!

Its a horrible thing to do for everyone involved i feel mostly for the kid though - it isnt their fault, it must be completly shite for the dad as well - i know people can get pregnant by accident but on purpose and just one parent is wrong.

 

they totally shoulda protected themselves better.

 

It's too bad there's not a form of birth control for males comparable to the pill. I know many males that would be interested. Of course, you could always try the dip-your-balls-in-scalding-water-20-minutes-a-day-approach (anyone hear about this?).

 

absolutely!! that would be awesome. i believe they ARE working on birth control for men, but the attention to condoms that feel like you're not wearing a condom and the viagra type things are taking up more time, attention and money. seems men don't put up as much fuss about their reproductive rights as they do for their pleasure and ability to get it up. that is, until they're forced to pay for the next 18 years for stickin' their dick in the wrong trashbin. THEN it's a big deal.

(how's that for an iron_goth style defamation of an entire sex?)

 

Well done and accurate too! You've summed up my gender's approach to sex quite well.

 

well l think the man should protect himself if he dosen't want brats, as not women can be trusted..

 

If somebody's that kind of person, they definately have some other issues I'm sure.... I'd just take custody of my baby by proving her to be an unfit parent, one way or another.

 

lol. i had a moment.