Going bra-less and drooping - myth or fact?

haha, I was thinking that as well


that last link seems quite trustworthy, now, just how do I get my girlie to stop wearing em? :tongue:

 

social conditioning- whoever said that- that's the real issue here.

boys are growing into men thinking that what they see in the media (round) is the normal breast shape. People think that sagging is unattractive, it's just normal.

 

you said it ^

 

I usually don't wear one around the hour... but I'm self conscious about not wearing one outside... makes me feel like everyone is looking at them, that and since I've had my kids I don't think they look as great... they're bigger... but I guess they're not that bad for have 2 kids and breastfeeding....

I just wanted to know what is true and myth about bra... they look fine in it... but even when you take it off they don't just stay up there... so is it just holding them up while you have it on even tho they are still going to sag? If that's they case then it's just a waste of money worried about keeping them from sagging... if you're going to wear a bra for the rest of your life what's it even matter if they sag or not anyway.

 

Please keep us updated about your fight, with pics I mean !

 

didn't read any replies but here's mine.

I posted links one day that proved (at least in studies...) that women who wear a bra sag MORE when they take their bra off than women who don't or rarely wear a bra. But since this body of evidence seems to get ignored everytime I post it I'm not looking for the link. But you can google it within a few minutes...

And who's the asshole that first said breasts were not suppost to sag? They do and it's beautiful!

 

Have you ever heard about Invisible Bra?

What do you think about it? Is it really comfortable?
I found one on http://www.wear4u.com/product_154.html

 

so says you. i guess the slight flesh apron i got from my two massive pregnancies was supposed to happen, too. as my skin tone is loosening up, i'm actually getting cellulite for the first time ever. skinny chicks get that, too. my ass isn't as perky as it used to be, either. but that's okie dokie. it's aging, and it's beautiful.

i don't think so.

 

well, they're all getting unrealistic ass preferences, too. but you still wear clothes to make your ass look good, right? until the day no woman tries on a pair of pants or skirt and turns around to see how it makes their ass look, i'm gonna keep wearing my push up bras and flaunting the one thing i have going for me.

 

granted I've never been pregnant and can not speak on the same level as you, but to me, it sounds normal. Sorry if you wish you could keep your young form, but physical beauty dies for us all, so lets not give it a long funeral. And yes I will too will know the pain one day. I only hope I can easily accept it in a world that doesn't want to.

and I agree (I think) with you, age and sagginess do not correlate to beauty, unless your superficial. my point is your beautiful the way god made you, and we are SUPPOST to sag. It's everyone else that needs to get over it

And no I do not look at my ass everytime I try on a pair of shorts

 

I respect that but at the same time I do not think all women are trying that hard to please. Yes I like to look good, but at the same time I'm 22, so fuck better now than later right? But at the same time I only give so much effort, which isn't that much apart from hygeine. No I'm not perfect, I have a pouch I'm trying to get rid of, but for atheletic purposes more than for the sake of vain beauty. All I'm saying is I don't judge you for wearing one, so don't judge me for not. And don't put all us women together in one boat. Yes part of me wants to appeal to others, whether my age or being a woman or whatever, but a BIGGER part of me wants to be myself and say FUCK IT! and do whats best for me and my health.

 

i actually have one of those. they're made of silicone. i bought it because it was on sale and i never felt comfortable out in public braless but i do wanna be able to wear something strapless.
it's kind of weird though, you need to get used to it. first of i think the silicone is a lil "heavy" and you have to mess around with it for a while to make sure you put it in the right placeon your breasts. cos if you do it too high or low it doesnt look like a natural flow and when you put your shirt on your breasts look funny lol

but i have em and every now and then i wear em. not very often though

 

i've never judged anyone for going braless. perfectly within one's right. simply stating i have a preference for a bra doesn't imply a disgust with those who go without. i just get really really annoyed with people who have a problem with me "sexualizing" my breasts (and many do). that gets old.

 

this is nice to know. i am trying to use my bras less and less. i went to the movies today without one. and i wear baggy shirts anyway but i could see them from my pov jiggle, but i did not care. if anyone looked its their choice. my husband finds it attractive in me.