good looking guy alone

Hahaha amen to that. I haven't had a girlfriend in a while, thats one of the the reasons, and that I have other things on my mind like gettin through college

 

I agree partially, but that's the instinctive unthoughtful selfish mainstream-thinking women. There are also plenty of genuinely caring women - you just have to really really really get to know them before your sure if you're getting conned =P
And western society is definitely all up in the female taint.

 

he sounds shy.

 

Your friend sounds exactly like me, and you sound exactly like this friend I used to have. He used to always bust my balls about me not having a gf and not getting laid, even after I lost my virginity he didn't believe me and he'd still rag on me about being a "virgin". He lost his virginity in like middle school so he thinks sex and women are the only real focus in life, I don't agree. I'm 23, pretty good looking, successful, etc, but sex/relationships are just a bunch of headaches and pain that I don't like to put up with. I've also been treated badly by women in the past (never had a good experience with one) so I tend to avoid them and just keep to myself. Maybe your friend is like me for the same reasons, idk. I just know there's a lot more to life than sex and being with someone doesn't automatically make you happy, it can't cure unhappiness and loneliness you have to overcome those things on your own first. In fact, in my experience, women are pretty insane in general and you have to develop some stability of your own before you can really put up with them.

Just remember to respect him and his decisions and you'll keep him as a friend. I got rid of most of my friends who were too nosy in my life, now I like being single, not worrying about getting laid, and just hanging with people I like. Also remember that it DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH SEXUAL ORIENTATION. Its not like "oh he hates women now, so he's obviously turning gay", you can just ignore sexuality most of the time. Its also not like you just suddenly start liking men, I'm hardcore heterosexual (not anything close to asexual, which is what people who don't want any sex are called) and even though I do my best not to think about women its not like it changes what I like. Unlike what you think, guys don't need to be in a constant search for a wet/warm hole to fuck.

 

leave him be, dude, he's ok, thats his choice, some people have the gift of celebacy. simple as that. maybe one day, he will meet the right woman. at least he's learned how to treat them and be friends with him. sounds like he's ahead in the game.