no honesty is the best policy getting your jollies from hearing about someone elses pain and loss, then laughing in their face........... that might be considered wrong, at the least it is meanspirited and of no help. oh ya, and heartless.
ahhhhhhh,,, seeeeeeeee there in lies the problem i am sure,,,,, i am prolly a hella lot more enlightened than most anyone here thinks,,, n til people realize it they despise me, dislike me,,,, whatever ya wanna call it ,,,, n eventually one day something happens n then one says....hmmmm thats what that evil mean wicked ghetto smurf meant by what she said / wrote,,,,
WHOOPIE,, AN THAT COST YA HOW MUCH?? WHAT ABOUT THE STARVIN CHILDREN IN IRAQ?? AHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA KEEP GOIN!!!! MY FUCKIN GOD WHAT A ESSAY OF THE EPITOME OF THE AMERICAN PSYCHE!!! RAT,, IF THATS YOU BEIN REAL,, ,, aAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHHAHHAHAH,, WHATTA CLUELESS PUSS IN YA PARENTS BASEMWENT YA HAVE BECOME!! HELL WE WOULDA STUCK ITS 13 YEAR OLD ASS ON OUR PRAYER POLE...:sunglasse
I believe you. why laugh at tragedy, though, I remember as a kid I did. but not for many years i am an ex poor white trailer trash kid. hopefully permanently word
I agree that you raise valid points. You just enjoy it too much for my tastes. It sounds like you are wagging your finger, saying na na na na nana, I know more than you do, crybaby.
ahahhaahahhhaahahaahhaha"""WORD""""? AHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA,,, WORDS ??? WORD?? DAMN CLASS ENVY,,, DAMNITT,, AT LEAST SOME DONT JUDGE OTHERS ON WHAT THEY LIVE IN...... OR WHAT THEY ONCE DID,, OR WHAT THEY ASSUME ONE TO LIVE IN.. COME TO THINK OF IT,,, JUST WHAT THE FUCK DOES GROWIN UP,, OR WHERE YA AT NOW LIVIN ARRANGEMENTS HAVE A FUCK TO DO WITH YA REPLY PSYCHE?? PRESSED RAT IS WHAT HE IS,, AN TRUST ME,,, I BEEN HERE,, AN SEEN RAT.. PERIOD...
I said it for the very reason that you and I, but many dont see, do not judge others. If you and rat are ol buddies, and this is just good natured jibing, I'm sorry. I didnt know. Bless you, I hope you find whatever you are seeking, namaste.
nah i dont enjoy it too much believe you me,,,, sometimes i wish i could be a bit more fake n plastic n hypocritical and liars like the rest of the world,,, sometimes i wish i could fit into that molded version of beings that we have become n yet i just cant,,,, it aint that i enjoy it but its me i live with it n people either can or cant live with me,,, i can accept that,,,, but i dont ask anyone else to change who n what they are just because i want to hear something n further more forums get awful fukkin boring when it all says the same shit for 15 pages,,,
and i guess while i am at it,,, i was not pokin fun at someone yet to me sitting there reading the post from the outside it is an almost comical thing,,,, there is laughter n good to be found in all things brother and too many only want to see the bad that comes from things rather than the part that one can learn from and then take good from,,,, i dont poke fun at anyone in that sense it may seem it is what is meant but it all truly depends on the mind of the reader ,,, some can read it and understand it on my level others cant,,,,, but i cant bow down and try to explain things in ways all could understand,,, tis why i didnt becoma a teacher and why should i dumb down ,,,, would not be fair to me now would it
and thatttttttttt my dear folks is how I kill a thread!,,,, that is just wayyyyy to easy to do round ere,,,, doesnt make for very good entertainment either
I am really sorry for your loss. Pets can be (and should be) just as important to you as family members. I am a real cat person and am very attached to several cats I have helped to raise and I find it hard being seperated from them when they are alive, I cant imagine the pain of being sepeated from them by death.
One time a freind of mine kicked my dog really hard and I ended up holding him over my balcony yelling at him. He thought he was gonna die
Hey Matt-- I am sorry to hear about your dog. I know how bad it hurts, animals become members of family very fast and losing them is probably almost as tough as losing a brother or sister. I hope you get to feelin' better Matt.
I'm really sorry you had to go through that. A little over a year ago I had to make the decision of having to have my dog put to sleep. It was the most difficult decision I ever had to make and I felt like I had betrayed him. I know it was the right thing to do because he was so sick and suffering, but still... It still breaks my heart when I think of him waving his tail at me just minutes before we went to the vet. Anyway.. I know it probably won't help at all, but you'll feel a lot better eventually and you will always have those wonderful memories. But still... it sucks when you lose a friend and it hurts so much and I'm really sorry it happened to you like this. Much strength to you!
So sorry to hear about your loss, especially during the holiday season. It's always tough to lose a part of your family. be well, there's healing in grief.
Shit, man. I feel for ya. We jus recently had to put our dog down, too. It was pretty hard on everybody.
I am sorry for your loss Matt, you know talking about the pain is theraputic even though i agree with dilli's rough message of using this to prepare you for the times when you will inevitably have to go through a greater personal loss. I hope you find good memories to fill the empty spaces where your beloved dog would now be. That is how we cherish the memories of my husbands mom, it keeps her with us, if only in thought. She died two years ago just before Christmas of a brain tumor it also happened so fast no one got to say good bye. It's so hard to imagine life with out someone or something that you've had around for so long...but strange as it feels you adjust eventually. I'm sure you know all this, it just helps to vent and share.
I still remember the day our dog died.. it was 1991, and we had that dog for a good 2-3 years. we used to let the dog outside the door just to go to the bathroom and whatnot, and it always went down the street to see my grandmother's dog, and then it would always come back. well one night, my uncle was there at my grandmother's house, and he would always watch those two dogs. he was inside and he mustve heard a thump, and he knew something was wrong, got up from the chair and heard another one..... he bolted outside to see a truck just speeding down the road after it hit the two dogs, and never knew who did it. he called us up, telling us that our dog and grandma's dog were both run over. I went down there to help move the dogs out of the street...... it was rough. my grandmother was crying and I couldnt help but to get emotional too. it was a good dog, and it was taken from us so quick without knowing who ran the dogs over. thats what really sucks. you know, people could be considerate of at least stopping and saying their sorry. they had to know they hit and ran over two dogs. they even swurved to hit the other one. anyways, I remember buring the two dogs together, and it was indeed rough for me for quite awhile..... my grandfather died the same year, and my grandmother came very close to dying too, from heart failure. but I know exactly what you are going through, matt. its tough. our mutt that we got at the shelter after our shizu/terrier was run over is getting to be 15 years old already..... and Im not feeling good about how much longer he will be here. he is starting to get deaf, or at least has selective hearing, but he is still a good dog. he is starting to piss on the floor, even after we take him outside. he may live another two years , though. who knows. he seems to be pretty healthy yet. but I do dread the day when it comes, if we have to put him down. I know I dont get to see him every day like I used to, but still, I usually see the dog at least once every other week.
