Guys would u marry a slut (30+ guys)?

If it is done because of a guilt trip or manipulation, then no, I don't respect it. If you just don't feel that you are ready yet, that's completely different. Conforming to somebody else's timetable is generally something you will regret later. I have respect for women who are willing and able to make their own decisions.

 

wether a person is a whore or not is an opnion. for example if i had sex with 30 people and my pretner had sex with 5 people they will think im a whore. on the other hand if i had sex with 30 people and my pertner had sex with 50 people they arent going to think im a whore. besides it doesnt matter if they are a whore just think of it as practice for when they get to you.

 

but u cant just be so naive to think its just 'practice'

u dont realise what goes thro their heads and what having those morals and fucking those people actually does to the womans frame of mind.

my brother was in a serious relationship almost engaged for over a year, and they had a kind of a breakup and she fucked somone with a week... u know, she was a whore before hand and look u have a fight and they go fuck somone. is that really what u want....

once a whore always a whore.

 

And you do?

 

i obviously have a better idea than u

 

lol...





no...

 

I can't believe this primitive way of thinking is still in practice...
Willingness to have a one-night stand does not equal low morals. Not everyone who sleeps around does it to hurt people. If she wants to sleep with you on the first date, it might mean she doesn't want a serious relationship and you should talk to her about that if you do.
I'm also sensing a double-standard here. You don't respect her for sleeping with you on the first date, but do you respect yourself for sleeping with her on the first date?
This reminds me of something I heard a comedian say once (can't remember who, but I want to say Bill Engvall), that men were like dogs waiting to be let out of a cage, suggesting that men aren't expected to control their urges and the women they are seeing are expected to have the "decency" to know when to open the cage and when not to... because essentially the man cannot help himself. Why anyone would want to identify themselves in this way is beyond me. I would find it much more degrading as a male to be seen as just a carnal creature that's too stupid to help itself.
I know that there is more to men than this, because I have met one who is closer to me in their sexual preferences: I don't sleep around, because I can't perform sexually if I'm not in love with my sex partner (and neither can he-- guess we're either extremely moral or have our own insecurities to deal with), but if I could, I would like it if it was at least an option to me, even if I didn't do it. I'm not saying I would do it all the time, but there are some people you just click with, you know? I couldn't blame anyone for having a little fun with someone on a trip to Italy or on a cruise or something, because what else can you do when you're never going to see that person again?
You're very quick to judge a person's whole moral code based on their sexual behavior. Sure there are bad girls out there, but there are plenty of bad guys, too. Maybe these "sluts" as you call them, donate money to the wildlife fund,maybe they feed the poor, maybe they recycle. It's pretty shitty to judge someone just based on one aspect of their personality.
Some people believe in promiscuity. It shouldn't be any less acceptable for a woman than it is for a man.

 

#1, if they had broke up, they had broke up. Once you break up, you don't have anything to say about what the other person does with their body, even if there is a possibility that you might get back together.
#2, mistakes happen. People do things out of anger, out of spite, out of a fear of losing their freedom all the time, and it doesn't mean they meant them or were proud of them. People do strange things when they are upset. People kill other people out of rage. I think having sex with someone is far better than that...

 

i dont know. u can stick up for them all day but it doesnt change things.im a guy and i talk to alot of guys about stuff and i know how guys talk about woman.if the girl slept with him, than he talks about that girl in the most degrading way, calls her slut, and so on. its yuck for a guy to think that all these cocks have been in that woman, its repulsive. there dirty sluts

 

It's totally our fault you guys talk about us behind our backs and don't respect us for doing the same god damned thing you do.
Now do you wanna tell me now why it's okay for you to do it and still respect yourself and not for us? You seem to be avoiding the topic.

 

First...what you and your moronic little buddies talk about and the way you portray women is more a reflection on you and your friends, not the women.

Second...learn to spell.

 

woman cant get away with loose morals in our society. man can. its just how it is. dont be stupid.

 

All i can say is........you cant turn a hoe into a housewife.

 

yess you can.


All you need are these letters:


usewif

 

That's how I feel about your lazy hypocritical bullshit.
Fuck, it's like talking to a wall...

 

lol

 

i understnad that society sucks. i understand that it isnt fair. but humans are just animals and i think its a basic primitive instint and thats why things are the way they are. and i dont think this specifically will ever change.

but i dont know any guy that would want a skanky hoe.
lol i create so much shit i should stop it. i have alot of anger to get out.

 

Well, I think that people (adults, anyway... I guess I can't account for a man-child) are individually responsible for their own thoughts and actions, and that if you follow the crowd like a sheep and decide to judge people based on one thing about them just because that's the way "society" is, then you are helping to perpetuate the problem.
Aka, leave the sluts alone. You're no better than they are if you sleep around. A man-whore is still a whore no matter how you slice it. Not that it's anyone else's business but theirs.
Christ, this gets me fired up...

 

Is whether or not you're considered a slut, as a woman, also dependent on your social standing? Like, would those girls in Eyes Wide Shut who whore themselves out be considered sluts?

Anyway, yeah, I'd marry a slut. I think it's possible that a person and a slut could fall in love, and she could be faithful to you. I am a dreamer, though.

 

Why in Gods name would anyone ever dream of marrying some used up trick?
Some guys just infuriate me.

Oh and I completely agree with the society thing. Its not fair that girls are expected to only be with a few partners while men can sleep around..
but being a girl that plans on remaining with my only one, i can say that if one of you is ever lucky enough to catch a true woman with respect and morals...and youve been a slut yourself..she'll kick you to the curb just like you would to any 5 minute whore.