Guys would u marry a slut (30+ guys)?

"I guess it depends on what the definition of is is."
__Bill Clinton

There are sluts and whores and playful girls. Not all the same. I would have to take in on a one by one basis. I think most prostitutes are in it for the money. They don't care about sex, or the guys they fuck. It just a means to an end. Playful girls who like sex are something else. Some may think of them as sluts, but that may be unfair. I think of a slut a someone (Could be a guy.) that will fuck anyone anywhere, anytime. I don't think this type of person would be good in a long term relationship. However, playful girls who like sex may make a good long term partner. This take time to get to know the other person, and how they think about sex in general. The girl I married over 39 year ago is a playful girl who like her sex. She is totally committed to me. We use to fool around with other couples and singles (Mostly guys) when we were first married. However, these days she refuses to have sex with anyone but me. I have mixed feelings about this as it would get me very turned on watching her having fun with other guys. Being bisexual myself, we would look for other bisexual guys to play with so we would all have fun in bed together.

 

What if the girl had sex with 3 or 4 boys at one time .. Is that someone thats ok.

 

I sure she was just haveing fun but who will take her as his wife not me..

 

contrary to what some people seem to think, by sleeping with somoene that someone else has slept with, you have NOT slept with second person by proxy! it does not matter how many people someone has been with. (well it could affect how experienced they are, but that'd be only a plus) those of you that say no to the posted question, think about it this way. why the double-standard? why should it be negative that a girl's slept around, but it be a thing to praise that a guy sleeps around? in reality, it's a backwards way of thinking, and it honestly needs to end.

and for those curious, yes, i'm male.

 

If I'm happy with her, and want to be with her for life, then yes. Whether or not being with a lot of people first would prevent (or cultivate) that is too unpredictable to really speculate about.

 

Yes. Why, do you know one who's on the market?

 

of course it's a good idea to be tested regularly/use protection. i was kinda assuming that to begin with because it's common sense now.

and actually, most STDs i know mutate slightly in a new host so they're NOT the same strain anymore. so even that's kindof a sketchy "by proxy" but i know what you meant... dunno where i read that actually

 

I love sluts. The all around best chicks I've known have been whores.

And to all of the naive posters in here: go marry your virgins. She'll likely be fucking your neighbors in a few years, and end up leaving you for some guy with more money than you.

My philosophy is that people need to experience life, which includes sex, before they do something like get married.

 

I plan on remaining unmarried. But, I`d like to have close relationships. And I can`t see myself having one with a girl who`s had less than 30+ partners. I can`t really dig the sex with vanilla girls.

But, that`s not what I consider a slut. A slut to me is someone without boundaries and a sense of privacy.

A girl who married a virgin to any old guy who took the initiative and paid for dates, and can`t stop running her mouth about her husband and PDAing...that`s a slut to me.

 

It would depend on why she (or he, in my case) had 30+ partners. If they slept around because they really enjoy sex, I wouldn't have an issue with it. If they had slept around as a way of seeking some sort of validation, or to get attention, then no.