Gym Shower Proposition

Cant wait to hear about your meeting.

 

His confirmation for lunch today was made. He said he was looking forward to meeting my wife but is not comfortable with her being present during play time. I conveyed that to my wife and she understood how/why he would feel that way to which she replied "After we have lunch I'll just vacate to the craft show I was going to later, I'm ok with giving you too alone time"...I called him back and he sounded to more at ease with just he and I being alone.

 

Sounds like a fair and solid arrangement.

 

Your wife sounds awesome. Just sayin.

 

Good Morning everyone. Unfortunately I have nothing to share with you all as this man decided to reconsider getting together. He said he didn't feel comfortable so I wished him a good day. OK, so he got cold feet but I find the excuse of not feeling comfortable was really not being truthful with me when he initially asked if he could suck my cock in the gym shower. Comfortable doing so in a public shower yet not comfortable within the privacy of a home. That's OK, the wife and I spent the day together and had a wonderful time.

 

sorry to hear that but glad you and the wife had a good time. Seems like you have a great relationship.

 

So sorry it didn't work out in the end (no pun intended ). I'm sure it was a big disappointment. Your friend sounds like the type of person who tends to do things more impulsively than planning it out. Not saying it's good or bad, but it does seem to be incompatible with you. I'm glad he at least had the courtesy to inform you he was calling it off.
But it looks like your consolation prize was pretty damn good so I won't feel so sorry for you.

 

Sorry for the cold feet. And totally agree with you, comfortable in a public shower, but not in private?. But, it could be something different and that's the excuse he used?. Might not be the end of him if given time. Glad you's enjoyed your time together regardless of the situation.

 

Yeah, he did provide something to let us know he wasn't stopping over so I can't really fault him for that. It happens, he did tell me at the gym he'd only sucked a guy for the first time last month and he also seemed to be quite lonely since his wife passed and caring for his sister. I'll provide him his space as he did confront me first and may do so again in the future. I can relate, he initially wanted to "act-on-the-spot" which he probably would have done but given time to think it over he lost his nerve...It happens a lot. I'm sure I'll get to talk to him again in the future so his reluctance may change in time.

 

Sounds like you leave off as friends, without benefits but it's still good. Hope the benefits come along when he's ready.

 

At least he let you know he wasn't coming. I can't count the times I've waited for someone I met online who failed to show up and then no contact.

 

That's the truth.

 

Thanks for the idea, my search came empty

 

Sorry your search came up empty. Maybe try widening your search to a large town within driving distance.

 

My ex is a fitness babe and was bedded by a few guys who hit on her at the gym. After we split up I ran into one of them at the 24 hour gym. We were the only two there as it was late at night. He knew that I was aware he was doing my wife when we were still together. His arrogant smile seemed to say, "If you want it, here it is." I massaged his muscular thighs and rock hard glutes as I brought him to climax, swishing his sperm all around in my mouth while savoring the texture and taste before swallowing it.

 

NICE...I do enjoy a male threesome (had many myself) where each gets to suck and be sucked.

 

The more cocks the merrier.

 

Seems like she would have said that she wants to try it too.

 

At such and various facilities, I prefer to keep a low-profile, minimize risks, control my thoughts, avoid temptations, and live for another day. But that doesn't mean that undesired situations can't develop, proceed, and defy even our very best and most serious intentions.

I've occasionally been pursued through quiet facilities, both of us with full, bouncing erections, by understandably frustrated, single-minded suitors. Typically, we hear a door creak open and I simply flee the immediate situation. Along with my still-persistent, unhideable erection, I end up loosely joining the company of the new, obviously surprised person and the suitor disappears.

The best situations involve only controlled anatomical observations, maybe with some posing, flaunting and simulation, followed by a subsequent proposal to meet outside the facility for further discussion.

 

Well, I just came from the gym after having had a conversation with this guy who compelled me to start this thread. His name is Gary and once again exposed his flaccid cock to me which is a good 8" long hanging in front of a huge pair of balls and it's a beautiful sight and he did allow me to cupule/fondle his balls and slide my hand around that huge cock. He's completely shaved smooth which is how I like them too. Having allowed me to do so I felt compelled to expose mine so he could enjoy the same which he did. We dressed and went for lunch to get to talk further. This man is really cool, his wife past several years ago and his sister moved in with him as she's older and needs his help. Show's me he's an honorable, family man who's seeking out a friendship. We discussed a number of things and found out we do have a number of things in common which is good. I decided to take the conversation in a sexual direction at this point telling him his cock is by far the biggest I've ever witnessed visually in person even in it's flaccid state. He chuckled and said...It's pretty big. He then replied..."I'm so horny", sucked my first dick not too long ago and found doing so was enjoyable and aroused me to want to do it again. I saw your cock while taking a shower and would really enjoy sucking your cock and if you'd like to suck mine then all the better provided you're up to something like that. It's now that I told him that I'm bisexual and my wife (as I told him before) is supportive of my sexuality so we could enjoy each other as each other or invite her into a m/m/f threesome if he's interested. I reminded him that the photo I took of his huge flaccid cock when we first met was shown to my wife and she is as much interested in seeing it fully erect as I am if it does so. He laughed and reassured me..."Yes, it still get's hard and it's 13" long when fully hard". OMG I replied. 13"...I want your cock I tell him, I want it bad. He agreed to discuss arrangements with my wife on the phone and it's an evening the three of us are so looking forward to which will be this coming Saturday evening at our house. I'll keep this thread going and my wife and I are hoping Gary is now committed to getting together after having backed out of our first meeting.