I love giving my man handjobs as much as I enjoy him going to town on my ass. His cock is so sexy looking to.me, I just can't help myself..
Is it still a hand job if the guy stroking you has his cock buried deep in your ass and you are in a wild state of bliss while your wife watched and rubs her pussy?
.....my idea of the ULTIMATE handjob would be having a married bi buddy jacking your big shaft with his BIG hairy-knuckled fist, and then, when you bust a huge nut, watch all that hot sperm slithering down those thick, hairy digits and coating his wedding band in the process....(!!)
bigredinmass: From what you described, that would be atkin to a "high end" job with several "fringe benefits" for workin' overtime....(!!)
While I greatly prefer oral, I've always enjoyed giving and receiving massage, naturally including cock massage; it's as much a part of a man as feet or foreheads. Humans are sexual beings, and I've always thought it puritanical and more than a bit hypocritical to jabber on about wholistic health while pretending that men the have the anatomy of a Ken doll.
While I do enjoy giving a guy head, a hand job is nice too. A lubed up hard cock in your hand is fun but it is usually a precursor to sucking him.
I've been with well over 200 guys over 25 years, mostly in many different gay sex venues like bathhouses, etc., and in the last 8 years in each other's homes, and the only time I have not moved from giving a handjob to a blowjob was the one or two times in a bathhouse sauna or porn theatre where the guy gestured no when I was moving to his cock with my mouth. Like so many guys in this thread and throughout the world, I just cannot resist putting that magnificent, most beautiful thing in the universe into my mouth. Likewise, though receiving a hand job from another man is wonderful, I want more. Take my last "lover" for instance: when we first got together at his place a few weeks ago, I was quite disappointed and finding him basically straight and just wanting a blowjob. I felt he felt absolutely no desire for me, and that was such a turn-off. He basically laid there like a piece of wood on his back in bed as I was going to town on his cock with my mouth, throat, and hand, and I only knew he had cum after I felt and tasted his beautiful man seed in my mouth, and happily swallowed the nectar. I lay back down on my back next to him afterwards, and his hand reached down to my limp cock and began to give me a handjob, or trying to, but there was absolutely no enthusiasm, no emotion, no gay desire on his part, that the gay part of me needs to feel from the other guy. My cock stayed limp, a mostly new experience for me with gay sex. At least that's what I hope was the reason for the ED, and not me being much older than my 59 years. The only reason I'm mentioning this latter concern is that I had ED issues with a guy over a year ago as well, when we spent a very long time in foreplay, 69ing, kissing, and me tonguefucking and fingerfucking his asshole for a long time, with my cock super hard the whole time, and teasing his hole with partial penetration by my bare and hard cockhead, that by the time I finished fumbling with the condom wrapper because my hands were so slippery, I couldn't stay hard long enough to get my cock into his beautiful asshole to fuck him. Then I got so much into my head about that, that all hope was lost to keep my erection. I felt so terrible because he really needed me to fuck him, bad, even though he assured me all is well. Anyway, that's another ED story, and not on topic. Sorry. My bottom line is, though, that I guess I need to feel a gay vibe from my "straight" or bi lovers, whether I'm giving or receiving a handjob or whatever. That's probably evolved over the 25 years with me personally, as I get more and more in touch and loving and accepting the gay part of me.
