Personally.. i'd put your parents in check.. not in a disrespectful way.. but tell them straight up that you understand that they don't like you smoking pot.. but that gives them no right to go through your possessions.. that they are being very disrespectful of you by going through your personal possessions.. stop bringing drugs into their house though.. because thats equally disrespectful... but that's fucked.. i'd put my parents in check if they ever tried lookin through my cell phone msgs.. but they are respectful and don't do that.. my mom never once went through my personal belongings
since i've turned 18 i've told them that. idk if they are going through my shit without saying anything now but i think i've been pretty safe as of late. i have been taking all my shit with me whenever i move (like put my cell phone in my pocket) and hiding my shit in my room so that even if they do it's all hidden. i think they have been respecting the fact that i'm 18 now. otherwise, i have been pretty upfront with them. i've told them that i'm going to smoke pot and that i'm going to live my life and not theirs. so whatever, i'm just gunna get through this until i can move the fuck out.
well if ur parents live in a house they signed a contract to follow the law. thus, you basically have to "tell them the truth" when it comes to the green habits,, because otherwise your parents may feel their contract to their home is being infringed upon. thus everybody has to "tell the truth" when it comes to cannabis. if u read into that the right way you can understand what i meant by the statement.
i have told them the truth. one day i was smoking on the porch and later that day, since it's winter and the storm windows are up, my mom could smell it when she walked outside. i told her that night that i will respect her wishes and not smoke in her house and that i'm still going to smoke elsewhere. she still didn't like that answer.
if your are smoking and cant handle your business like getting and maintaining good grades or a steady job then leave it alone but the key is to be able to maintain and perform like nothings going on, have you heard of ozium or clear eyes those help.