Have you ever been ''stuck'' in a relationship?

what i mean is, you known you don't want to be with them, you are placing roadblocks in the way of yourself as a way to prolong change.

so by insisting you are stuck in a relationship, you're not, just masking fear with an excuse not to move forward. this is just the impression i get, as you mentioned your happiness disappearing - the job, band, health etc.

 

Yeah. You're right. It's driving me nuts! I think it's the ambivalence that's driving me insane. I'm not commited to the relationship. Somehow I just can't - but then again I've never really been able to commit to anybody, so what if I'm the idiot here and I'm just wasting what could be a great thing?

And then again, I can't commit to leaving either.

We had a pretty shitty discussion about it today. She's at her place, I'm at mine, and we are thinking about where this is going but im having a hard time over here.

FUCK!