Have You Ever Been With Someone You're Not Attracted To?

Not really..

 

that's what i meant about leaving aside the detail; sex no. but every other situation in life, pretty much.

 

B.S. I see men talking about being with women they're not attracted to much more often because they just want sex. I've seen men do this a lot...
I don't know any women who sleep with men for money...

 

^lol

 

What's so funny?

 

i do agree that women don't generally sleep with men for money (i'm sure it happens, but i don't know those people). but women do seem to sleep with anyone who they think will raise their status through association. while on the other hand, men are physically incapable of sex with someone they're not attracted to. you may have seen men deny their attraction to someone they've slept with, but that doesn't mean they aren't attracted to these women.

 

Years ago I dated a woman 2 or 3 times. I was really good friends with her. I loved her a lot but for some reason I just couldn't cross that line with her very easily. I wasn't even that I didn't want to or that I didn't do it because I did.....but it was just kind of weird. We dated a few times and broke up and that really sucked because she was really a great girl but it was really odd. I still know her 20 years later and I feel the same way about her. I trust her with anything, love her to death, wish I could bang her but....I can't.

Edit to say...I did indeed bang her a good number of times back in the day. I just had to get over that threshold.

 

Yes, I have been with someone(s) I wasn't attracted to because I thought I'd try Something Different, and that maybe I would become attracted to them. I like to try things several times...give things time to work. Didn't work. Never worked even one time. lol

What I had been doing - seeing who I was initially attracted to - hadn't been working either. I was always attracted to bad boys/James Dean type men.

After I tried the "something different" (enough times) I decided if things were not going to work out, I'd rather it at least be with someone I was attracted to in some way.

 

The novelty value of sleeping around doesn't last forever.

I'm so confused. So... some men actually think ugly women are hot? How can that be?

 

lol

 

To me it seems he was not saying that at all. He was saying that sometimes men say they aren't attracted to a woman they slept with but they secretly are. Otherwise they wouldn't have sex with her.

But how can it be that some men think ugly women are hot? Obviously because preferences are subjective and thus differ (thank god!)

 

I understand her point though. As an ugly woman (lol) I can only say that there has to be a man out there who finds women who are even less attractive than myself to be attractive enough to sleep with.

 

Isn't that a good thing?

 

Have you ever seen the Jerry Springer show? Some of those women... oh my god! :bomb:

 

Some things you see on Jerry just can't be unseen.

And yeah, I guess it's a good thing for those women :clown:

 

You say that as if it is a bad thing for you or other people?

I only saw some fragments. So not sure what kind of women you exactly mean and what is your point? Are you making fun of ugly people?

 

Do you always attract the people you are with?

 

I'm questioning whether or not it is possible for every woman on earth to attract a man.

My theory is that Mr. Undies is wrong, that some guys just want sex so much that they don't care how repulsive the woman is, as long as she has the required body parts. I think they are able to imagine her being someone else.

 

Mr undies neglects to point out that men are attracted to more women than women to men. Whereas I am only attracted to maybe 1 in every 100 men I come across, I know some of my guy friends are attracted to, well, almost any woman who is halfway attractive.

I feel like attraction means something different to men and women.

 

No.