lol... yes, and i must disclaim... anything i say in this debate is not to be taken as any form of perfect, sound logic. i am stoned, and so what makes sense in my mind now will be the "WTF was i thinking?"in the morning.
Im not from America (im not sure if you are) but i wouldn't be surprised... they have people who protest funerals for Christs sake!
man i wish i was stoned...that sounds nice *sigh* i could totally go for a nice heavy glass bong packed full of some bubblegum.....
a lot of people who go in for couples counseling are middle class women who just want to avoid a divorce because divorce is morally wrong. it's not a personal problem with what she is doing, cousin, great grandmother, were both career working girls, one of them was murdered because of it (in that case, it ruined her career which it was, so, paradox there) twenty years, someone catches on, and it gets to her client base, unless america has changed she WILL lose clients. maybe not many, but, it'll happen. it could also affect other aspects of her life. her children's lives, her parents, etc. go look on 7chan, lurk for a few days, and find how many anonymous women, or women using pseudonyms they've identified with the feeble tool the internet is now. information is a dangerous tool, and we cannot always be prepared for how it may be used against us. I know, by the time I am 35, even if I were going to be qualified (won't be) or have the inclination to (won't) run for president, I couldn't, because by then, barring a purge, a wipe, or a crash, the posts I have made here over the past few years, and on other websites WOULD reflect poorly we move into an information age, and information is dangerous okay, I sound paranoid, but, really. this is our future. westboro baptist church.
yeah, it was pretty awesome. i kinda got to lose my virginity twice, because there was that first first time, and then 2 years ago almost, i got to lose my virginity with a guy, and that was a really special experience too. so all around, great things. i think part of the reason some people have such awkward, horrible experiences is because they put too much pressure on sex. either having it or not, and then you think and obsess over it, until it's not fun when you finally do have it, because you're too worried about doing it right or is this the right time or am i making a mistake???? i didn't realize until after it was all said and done that we had just had sex, because i totally wasn't thinking about it being any big deal. we just liked each other, and were in the moment, and it just felt right... and then it's like.... oh! well sex is awesome then!
i was just too damned drunk. although i guess without the pressure i might have put if off for a few more years until a sober opportunity may eventually come up...
Oh for sure, i was so nervous my first time i did a terrible job, but it was still awesome. Just that we both decided we loved eachother and she was/is beautiful. The fact that she didnt care was great to and lead to a lot of practice. But i agree there is a lot of pressure, thats why i am glad i've lost it otherwise i'd feel like there is this huge thing still over my head but i know that a little bit silly.
i'm pretty sure they only make virgins, as a matter of fact... the just don't build them to last like they used to.
Well, what I mean is this - like, 90% of the guys that I have slept with, they were virgins before I slept with them. So, I was dating a guy who was a virgin, slept with him, and then continued sleeping with him. I just tend to go for... virgins I guess?!?! Or at least guys that don't have a whole lot of regular sexual activity. I like nerds, geeks, guys who don't have too much time to sleep around and aren't recklessly sticking their manhood into women. That's the type of man that I'm into, so that's why my percentage is so high on virgins.
Eh. How is it surprising? I tend to get exactly what I want in bed, so it's not like the inexperience thing bothers me. In fact, quite the opposite bothers me. I find that men who have a lot of experience with sex don't know how to please me or don't care to. Ya know what I mean? Virgins at least are readily willing to explore and learn how to make me feel good.