yea... i've faked before... sometimes you just have to... my favorite is doggy style and pulling out and spitting on their back... as if you just came on their ass
any dood that would be snowed by a female faking a orgasm is a inexperianced fool.. an no i havent, course im a dood..
Well... Guys can you tell me how to talk with my bf? I dont want to hurt his feelings coz I really enjoy our sex but I dont know what to do to cum. I guess he need to make something more but I dont know what (And yeah, Ive had sex only a few times. I first had 1 month ago)
Anastazija, tho I think you shoulda posted this in a new or similar thread I'll reply. Enter cunnilingus into a search engine and have your bf do those things. Most women do not cum from intercourse alone and need clit stimulation. Some informative links... http://www.sexuality.org/l/bodywork/ http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/cunnilingus.htm
Yes i will admit that I have faked a few times...I didnt have orgasms during sex until i met my husband at which time it just felt wrong to lie about it and I showed him exactly how i need to be touched.. lets just say, the boy picked it up quickly.. Now I'm on medication that causes sexual side effects so I havent came during intercourse in quite some time...that being said, it still feels good and I dont bother to fake an orgasm to save my hubby's ego...he understands that it is the meds and not any lack of skill on his part... I just kiss him and say .. "Thanks honey, that felt great!" And I do my best to make sure he is satisfied!
Haven't faked, just spent the time either giving guidance or concentrating on the womans reactions to my actions. I have lied about whether I did or not though - which I'm not proud of.
I have faked it once. I was drunk, couldn't get anywhere because he was completely UNSKILLED, and I was ready to get it over with.
can i ask a honest question?? how does a female fake a orgasm,, when fuckin a dood that has felt several "real" orgasms?? im just amazed how this could take place..
LOL, I'm still trying to get my head around on how a man can fake one. Some men claim they can tell if she's faking or not.
Yea, I dunno, I guess the guy just screams or something while he's inside the girl. That's the only thing I can figure. You'd think that would still be easy to pick off, though.
the only time i've faked is when i was with a person where during the act i was like, "oh jesus, what the hell was i THINKING? jesus, he's going to take forever if i don't cum, but i can't so i'll fake." i was young then, and i was always the good little relationship girl who only ever had sex with the two men i had been in relationships with, and i felt i should get out there and "play the field." he was one of those people who had an allure and an attraction, but for some reason once we slept together it felt totally wrong...it's hard to explain, but i just didn't want to fuck this dude once he stuck it in me...it's like the pheromones didn't match up or something. i only saw him twice and promptly ended it. nothing against him as a person, but you can't fake attraction when it obviously isn't there. i think you can be attracted to someone's personality and looks, but not sexually, if that makes sense...
first off, talk to him about it. sounds like you're both young and inexperienced, so it's easy for this to happen. you're given such a clinical education about sex and not really taught about how to make it pleasurable (which takes work)...it took me forever until sex finally felt good to me...it took me learning that it's not disgusting for a female to bring herself pleasure. i would try investing in a sex toy or two, and not just a vibrator or a dildo, but something that will focus stimulation on your clitoris. the clitoris is your best friend as a female...not to generalize because i know a few girls who orgasm from intercourse, but most ladies get much of their sexual stimulation through the clit. cunnilingus from your boyfriend might help, especially if you "return the favor" to him when he's done. try a nice warming lube, as that helps bring more blood flow to that area and makes it more sensitive. i would also try to have lots of foreplay before the actual intercourse, because that helps you not only get "heated up" by being teased, but it's also a great way to bond with your partner...good luck! i hope you're able to have orgasms soon
Yes, I have. And I'm a guy I was having phone sex with a girl, and I had already masturbated twice that day... for some reason I was jacking off hard and just couldn't cum. Now, if the girl was in the room, that would have been a non-issue because staying hard and fucking a chick is a good thing. But when you're on the phone, and the girl cums and wants to help you cum and you still can't... its annoying. For me, not so embarassing, just annoying. Especially if I jack it for 5 minutes while she's waiting for me to cum lol So yeah, I faked it. I'll admit it!!!
No you dont make sense, if it was the second date, and you still werent attracted to him, ESPECIALLY if you got naked you should have put your clothes back on and said neevrmind, this isnt right... *rolls eyes*