he wants to get in my butt.

thanks for the advice everyone.. I'm scared but maybe I'll let him get in if we actually start getting a little more serious.. because right now he doesn't deserve it yet.. haha.

about fingering him.. it grosses me out.. i really wanna please him the best i can tho!!

 

Don't put a road block sign on the Hershey Highway!

 

Maybe he'd like a small dildo instead of your finger. Might be less of a gross out for you if you just don't like the feel of it.

 

Sorry my last post really didn't address your original post. Anyway, I don't think you will ever be able to enjoy anal sex if the thought of it doesn't turn you on. If that's the case, I would let him know you're not ready for that.

I wouldn't close the door yet, though. You might tell him his finger is uncomfortable, but let him know you might enjoy him using a lubricated finger to rub you there while having sex. You might find you begin to enjoy that and want to go further. The important thing is that you set the boundaries.

Good luck. I won't say anal sex is for everyone. However, if you find you enjoy your ass being stimulated, and take it slow, I think it can become something you enjoy. It really requires the receptive partner to control the situation. This is why my wife and I always find it interesting when we read that anal sex is about a man dominating a woman. There's no question my wife is in control when we have anal sex.

 

Good advice, Luv.

 

give it up already !!!!!!!!!

 

Let's get this straight.

He wants to fuck you in the butt (so would I) BUT, he also wants you to finger his asshole?

He just needs to come on out and be done with the guilt.

 

lol do you mean he's a homo??

 

Well, maybe not. Maybe a little "gayness" in there in though.

But, I can understand why he wants your ass.

 

libertine does in fact mean that the dude your banging is gay. A big problem with closet homosexuals and homophobes.

Lube and relaxtion are your friends in buttsex.

 

Well, you could let him finger your asshole while I fuck you.

Just tell him my ass is off limits. Sorry.

 

Hey if your looking for a good lubricant get "Astroglide". I can tell you that it works rly good with anal sex.
Now, if you're looking something with more flavor, get "liquid Swirl Green Apple". I've tried several flavored lubricants and this 1 is the best. They also have it on strawberry and idk what else, but I've only tried green apple.

 

You should probably tell him that he's hurting you... Maybe he's fingering you in a way that's making it so painful. Maybe you need it gentler? Lube is always a good idea though. I've been fingered so hard it hurts the next day, so I understand your situation.

Best way to make it stop: "Hey, that's too hard. I'd like to be able to sit down tomorrow."

 

No need to go any farther than your own kitchen! I would never put anything on my skin or anothers that also wouldn't go in our mouths. Trt hazelnut oil, try olive, try your favorite vegie oil!!

I'm fond of apricot kernet oil most recently, almost flavorless, it goes well with the musky scent of my wife's ass when i'm rimming her deep during a break in the middle of fucking her up the butt.

 

Oil anywhere near the vagina is never a good thing...

 

Even tho "M"s pussy is plenty juicy, we never know where a bit of lube will end up. Might as well be something that doesn't taste like hell.

Troll, I'll have to try the apricot you suggested.

One nite we ran short on the lube we were using. I got a half stick of butter and put it into "M"s ass....we had butter all over the place. Next day I was teasing her about being "Butter Butt". She replied, "Yeah, and I know how to 'butter your bread', huh!?!?

LOL...I have to agree!!!!

 

agreed, oil can cause yeast infections in someo women and is not exactly compatible with condoms (which for me, are a must for anal sex)

 

eww... this is grossing me out. sorry.

 

He's a lucky guy to get you in the first place -then asking for "butt sex";he might finally 'blow it'!.(pardon the expression).

 

go for it. If you learn to relax, you'll learn to love it. Look at it this way. Butt sex is like the final frontier. Boldly going where you haven't gone before, its like a new beginning, and a true consummation of something special.

What I mean to say is, if you love him, and feel he deserves you in your entirety, give him the butt. If you aren't sure how you feel about him, don't. Save it for MR. Right. But your pleasure is what is most important.