Hi Toni, When you cross dress is it a sexual thing or just the need to dress like a woman? Are you putting on nice clothes and makeup so you can look sexy for a man, or because it makes you feel good? Do you want to transition to being a woman or are you quite satisfied that you were born a man and want to remain a man, just dress like a woman when it makes you feel good? I am genuinely interested in hearing your feelings on this.
I was just thinking about this. I love being girly and feminine and I honestly try to pass as a woman in public but it’s rare. I stayed in a hotel for 4 days and dressed the entire time went everywhere. It’s also sexual. I love shaving down totally bare everywhere and putting on my wig, makeup, lingerie, thigh highs, heels (omg my next purchase will be a corset mmm) and making videos of being naughty lol. I would love to be dressed with a man. It was being with a man that made me feel feminine. I have non vulgar pictures you can check out on my page. If you’re curious...
I too enjoy dressing feminine. Mostly underdressing in panties and bras. Even when going out on errands. I will occasionally wear women's outerwear around the home. It's something I did since a young age when it wasn't sexual I enjoyed the feel of women's material and fit. As I aged other things developed. Yes, it was the feeling of naughtiness, the closeness I secretly felt with whomevers panties I was wearing. It later became an escape from my lifes stress. I was for the time I was wearing... Not me. It relaxed me. After 45 years of marriage I disclosed it to my wife. She told me she had known for years and she wasn't concerned by it. It's never been a sexual thing with her and I. She supports my reasons why and even helps me buy my own things. At my age now it's more of an escape and a way to relax along with the feel and looks I like.
I wear panties everyday even if I’m not dressed and I wear thigh highs under my clothes in the winter. I’ve never worn anyone else’s panties or clothes though. I have quite a few outfits. I dress at home by myself more than I do going out. The last time I dressed and went out was right before lockdown. I was supposed to meet someone but he chickened out lol. For some reason I am less compelled to do it during the summer. It’s usually from early fall to late spring. I shave head to toe. I have probably 200+ panties and tons of bras and hosiery. I used to wear breast forms but I like just wearing a bra that makes what I got kinda look feminine. It feels like I got little a cup tiddies lol. I don’t usually apply labels but the more I read maybe I’m more of a transsexual. Idk lol. Occasionally I wanna transition but overall I don’t. I like my wiener lol and I use what I have like a woman I guess and it feels so good so I call it my pussy or **** lol
I've experimented with dressing. Twice in fact. Nothing much other than thong, dress and heels. It's a turn on to see others do it for me
"But get me behind closed doors and my clothes off and I turn into a submissive fuck slut." That seems to be the sentiment of a lot of the bisexual guys here on the forums (myself included). I even become a "submissive " slut for my wife and our strap-on pretty regularly. She also approves of me wearing panties... So much so, that one of her favorite sayings is that "I have a cute feminine ass that was made for wearing panties." The first pair of panties she bought me (which I still have) are rainbow striped, to signify my bisexuality. I used to wear hers, now I have as many, if not more pairs of cute/sexy panties than she does (she prefers going "commando") I only crossdress alone, or for my wife... But I really like and enjoy wearing cute/sexy bras and panties, mini skirts, yoga pants/leggings and knee high boots.