I am a newcomer and I'm not picking a fight...but I think you might not be...correct. I say this, because I chose mine. I am the person I chose to be. Frankly to insinuate that you know I had no choice in the matter is insulting and is revealing of your ignorance of my reality. I chose to be gay. This frank environmental deterministic attitude towards sexuality is a very old idea, and frankly a little outdated and offensive. -BlkBks
you are perfectly entitled ta think whatever you like.what other people thinkof my thoughts is none of my bussiness.do you know what insinuate means? if you do you obviously need ta reread what i said,as there was absolutely nothing subtle,indirect or unpleasant about my statement. so that is incorrect!further more i said" people"i did'nt say you specifically.i was generally speaking.if you believe in your reality that you choose to be gay,thats your believe.but that dose'nt speak for everyone else.no i do not believe a persons sexuality is a decision.people are whatever sexuality they are just because they are.simply because it's normal ta be.what concerns me is that i would'nt like anyone else to think that its something to decide on.cos it dose'nt work that way.there are a lot of people in the world not being their full selves.all of who they are, simply cos of worrying bout what other people think.an people end up sick an depressed and even sometimes suicidal, cos they are surpressing there own sexuality.an none of that is a healthy, happy way ta live an be. so if everyboby else thought,well seeing as being gay or bisexuasl or any other sexuallity is'nt fitting in to the rest of my present lifestyle, i'll just decide to not be.there is only one place that would lead to.to that person being very unhappy through going against the grain of there own true selves.an that could never be a good or positive thing for anyone.so if you find my believe that people should be free just ta be who they are insulting,then so be it!an ya! of course i'm ignorant ta your reality! but thats not unique in anyway at all,as i am ignorant ta everybody elses reality also,given the fact that everyones reality is just that.their own!no two persons is the same.we all live in our own one.
I'm not replying or reading all that, as I have other things to do. But yes, I know what insinuate means and yes I will explain to you what it was you actually said. You made an all-encompassing absolutist remark that... By expansion of that remark you, insinuated, implied, intimated, supposed(choose your synonym), that I could not choose my sexuality nor the OP, his. I disagreed with you and there we are. As for your, no doubt, expert musings on free-will vs human sexuality. I don't really care. You don't dictate other people's realities and you don't dictate mine. I'll repeat myself. I chose the life I have. Respectfully, -BlkBks
everyboby already has a sexuality.there own natural one.they dont need to make a choice.people can choose to not practice whatever sexualitys they have for whatever reasons,but that and sexuality being a choice are to completely different things.personally i would encourage people to just be an live as who they are ment to be, an be their happiest self.an yes. i made an absolute! remark.sexuality is not! a choice. it just is!and i will be continueing to stand by that conviction.expert musings ha! ha!now ya would'nt need ta be an expert ta use a bita common sense.true, i dont dictate anything to anyone.never have an never will.i would certainly never tell anyone there sexuality is a choice.that would be dictating that i know better than the natural biology of human kind.one last thing. i'll reapeat myself... sexuality is not! a choice....respectfully.
