hey, who's having sex tonight?

Barry, you're a lawyer, scientist or engineer right? You have a very analytical approach

Aw nevermind guys, we took a break after some pretty intense oral (jaw hurts, tongue got rug burn) and fell asleep. Whatever, I'm old haha

 

My wife and I are celebrating Valentine’s Day tonight because it’s the only time we will have available for the rest of the weekend. So, I’m planning on getting busy after dessert! I guess you could call that “second helpings of dessert“!

 

Tomorrow evening ... aiming for pet girl play, submission, collar, leash, doggie dish, walking, heel etc.. haven't done that in a long time. I washed everything today.

edit: funny story so she came home from work today, I was using a hand held carpet cleaner to clean the rug in our sex room (formerly my home office, formerly my man-cave). She asked why I was doing that. I said b/c we'll be using it tomorrow night. She looked concerned, lol

 

Cmon, I don't know or particularly care who you are, I don't even care if you're lying lol, tell us if you're having sex tonight and what's the plan?

Extended sex tonight - all nighter, tomorrow will be her wind-down / sensual / normal sex (1/2 night).

So did the pet play thing last week, that was fun. Tonight I'd like to try something I've been thinking about for a while. I changed the battery on my metronome and I'm going to try hold a pounding cadence of approx 80-100 BPM. See if I can go a full hour, no pausing ... or longer. I do kegal exercises quite vigorously so I have a good core and back. I'm not sure how this is going to play out, on extended pound nights I'm usually flipping her between missionary (on her back), reverse missionary (on her face) and cowgirl if she wants a turn. The changing positions would involve pausing and breaking the cadence... I think it would help if I restrain her thighs to the bedposts. Or maybe she has plans for me.

 

I think you might get better results lowering the cadence to between 60 - 80 BPM.

 

It was a disaster. At 100bpm she actually fell asleep in < 20min, I mean full snore. Spoon sex for a while and a bit of nip pinching woke her up. I cranked up the cadence to 160bpm. I can get a really good circular / bouncing rhythm going. With all muscles relaxed it feels like I can go on forever. Its kind of like swimming (you do triathlons right?) when you can get the right rhythm it feels like you can go on for hours. There were times I was way faster than 160bpm but I can't hold that speed for very long. It was an all night pound fest. Next night was slow and easy / recovery.

6 part night tonight - all night'er. Here's the rough plan:

[-a-] Always full body massage and foot massage for her.

[-b-] Oral for her and me

[-c-] I was thinkng of one or several of the following:

- Practice my bondage skills (quite difficult to master and I don't do it often enough to get really good at it),
- Pet play maybe with collar and leash, get her to crawl and choose / fetch an implement she wishes me to spank her with
- Practice her slave positions #1-4 (kneeling positions), haven't done this in prob well over a year, I'm sure she forgot
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[-d-] Sex, haven't decided what to do

[-e-] Something new, I was thinking of dropping a load in the dog dish, I'll hold the back of her neck and force her to lap it a bit (she isn't much of a swallower, that is ok I'll smear it on her face and breasts then lick her clean. Never done that before.

[-f-] She always requires after-care. Kissing, spooning, cuddling. She likes me to run my fingers through her hair.

I may not allow her to wear panties until lunch tomorrow. Not sure.