but it's still a matter of state of mind...... five years v. life..... I think that's funny..... twisted, but funny
Exactly! The women here are all strong and are usually not insecure. Humboldt is known for it's strong-minded women who do what they want.
When I joined the army, got my headshaved, started going to the gym, picked up military type mannerism, etc. I started getting the same shit from people that looked like the type of friends I had back home before I joined.
People who look like they're trying to get somewhere always piss off people sitting in the same old shit.
Yeah, somebody's got to take up the slack. I think what's up is that the family dynamic of the last cpl generations of "hippies" came down to this; The guys get the women knocked up, can't deal with it, so they don't even try whereas the women have to deal with it. So, little hippy girls and boys grow up thinking it's a womens role to be the grown up and take care of everything and it's the man's role to just go on doing whatever he wants for as long as he can get away with it. so the girls grow up learning to be responsible and the boys grow up thinking they don't ever actually have to grow up.
so, you know what i actually drew from this thread, info-wise? naykidape and lodog are big ol' studs. that's what i got, anyway.
wow naykid, you're so brave and so much better than those little motherfuckers. I can't even believe they would call themselves hippies.
i like strong minded women, but i get bored very fast when women spend all day trying to prove that they are better than me.. do you like it when men tell you to get in the kitchen and fix me a sandwich and get me a beer now woman?
haha this is funny in arcata if you spend a day wandering around meeting people you could probaly find three guys named sunshine two will be total pricks and one will be genuinely interesting actually the guy named Demon was the coolest of all
actually, on occaision, i do.....go figure. i don't like being in control of a man, it makes me all evil and creepy. put me next to a weak male specimen and i'm a fucking ****-bitch from hell. so i avoid them.
you name it. I don't even try to compete with woman now on any level. I'll let her prove she's a better cook. I'll let her prove she can outlast me in bed. I'll let her prove she's better at doing the laundry, washing the dishes, even paying the pizza guy. I know when I'm outclassed and I'm not too proud to admit it.
Yeah, just until I realise that she's just overall too good for me (usually happens right about the end of the rainy season) and I'd be doing her a big favor by hitting the road, rejoining the carnival, and consoling myself by spending the summer partying with all the gamebooth groupies.