His Antipathy of Condoms

white ginger · May 4, 2005

lawngirl said:

yeah, i re-read your original post and realized that you never said he did come in it, so i went back and changed it up a bit, then realized you beat me to it i'm glad it still made sense though.
well... i think it is still in line with what you are asking for, because if it's a psychological/emotional issue, then other "solutions" would be bunk. if he's using the smell as an excuse, then nothing will get him to not hate the smell, because it wouldn't have anything to do with the smell. if it's a psychological/emotional issue, new condoms would be a waste of time and money. you're asking for ways to "get him over the smell" so you should sit him down and have a talk; clear the air to make sure that there aren't any deeper issues on his end. and then maybe once he expresses what is really going on, the smell will suddenly be tolerable. but since this is something you are onto, then you probably already thought of that... i figured i'd mention it just in case, though.
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yup; well, I plan to do both: figure out what's 'really' going on, and get diff condoms and make them a little more fun. As I said, even I noticed the smell....
He was the one who asked me if I'd heard of any guys disliking condoms as much as he did, and I offered to make a post for him, you see.
It seems to me like a lot of people here dismiss partners that they mark as 'damaged goods.' I may be wrong. Anyway, I'd be much more satisfied with working through whatever damage there may be.
I really appreciate how much thought you've put into your posts, and how you have wordily linked each thought. Thanks for giving the time.

Trickster · May 4, 2005

Don't remember the last time i read so much about condoms Funny how it's more girls than guys

lawngirl said:

yeah, i re-read your original post and realized that you never said he did come in it, so i went back and changed it up a bit, then realized you beat me to it i'm glad it still made sense though.
well... i think it is still in line with what you are asking for, because if it's a psychological/emotional issue, then other "solutions" would be bunk. if he's using the smell as an excuse, then nothing will get him to not hate the smell, because it wouldn't have anything to do with the smell. if it's a psychological/emotional issue, new condoms would be a waste of time and money. you're asking for ways to "get him over the smell" so you should sit him down and have a talk; clear the air to make sure that there aren't any deeper issues on his end. and then maybe once he expresses what is really going on, the smell will suddenly be tolerable. but since this is something you are onto, then you probably already thought of that... i figured i'd mention it just in case, though.
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