hot irish boy,

when did i say there was a god?!?1

thats asshole advice

its never cool to lie

 

Did somebody hurt your virtual feelings?
Look bunny, I've never really said 2 words to you but if you were actually looking for somewhere 'to fit in' an the internet, you need to get out more.

This place is like an open air nuthouse and letting anything that anybody says to you on here get to you is CRAZY.

If you're not having fun, don't announce it, just switch off the computer.

Peace.

BTW: Honesty is the best policy, but don't let people you've never actually met give you advice about a situation they know nothing about.

Haven't you ever noticed how EVERYBODY on here is honest, EVERYBODY has friends who do douchebag things, everybody gets asked for ADVICE by friends, and everybody on here knows what to do in any given situation?

 

having coffee with someone is entirely different than fucking someone while you tell another that you love them.

 

fuckin eh:cheers2:

honesty means never having to hide anything


its pretty cut and dry in my mind

 

i know it is bunny, you forget who you're talking to

do what you want to do but know there are consequences/reactions to every action, and as long as you're prepared for that then you're all good...

you know whats best for you

and if paying back a karmic debt for deceit is on your list of things to do then by all means sugar....

balls to walls:cheers2:

 

1. no
2. it's not "getting to me" i'd just rather not deal with it. If that makes any sense. I mean, I could care less, but I'd rather just not deal with it.

 

You didnt, it's my bizzare way of telling bunnysuit there is no good or love here.

Depends what you consider a lie, if she doesn't want to bring it up, thats her choice, as she said (after this post im qouting) it's not like she's fucking the guy she's gonna have coffee with.

But yeah if you wanna pretend she's dishonest or something because of how she's handling it, thats your opinion, and they're alot like assholes.

 

do i look fat?

i have very few friends and they rarely ask me for advice...

i generally only give unsolicited advice to strangers on the internet.

 

i guess it depends on your version of honesty

if omitting the truth isnt considered lying in your book then you're not lying right?!

if you believe what you say, does it make it true?!


i never knew there was so much grey area when it comes to truth, i always thought it was pretty black and white...

guess i have a lot to learn

 

you know what really pisses me off?????


i cant even tell you if you look fat or not, cause i've never seen you before....

i hear from a few people that you're quite attractive

but i'll need proof of that before i give my verdict

 

she may not be fucking him, but it still sounds like a date, which is generally not something that you do with someone who is not your boyfriend when you have a boyfriend. and the fact that she wants to keep it a secret from him makes it sound even more nefarious..

 

chubby chasers.

 

so is this you being ironic or you being the exception to your perceived "rules" of the forum?!

i dont think you have a clue what you're talking about

 

In my experiance, people who tend to dwell on 'lying by omission' also tend to be rather judgemental.

In my opinion, life is never black and white anyway, it almost always has a grey area. Bottom line, not telling everyone everything, is not dishonest and i couldn't care less about what bunnysuit tells either of these guys.

And im not about to pretend that karma is going to bite her ass because of your standards of behaviour, if she is doing something wrong it might, but im not going to judge something so minor and insignifigant as 'wrong'.

 

im not pretending anything, ive been in the same situation on either fuckin end of it....

i know for a fact that for every action there is a reaction

ultimately it is your choice in how things play out

when it comes to honesty there isnt much of a gray area, you're either telling the truth or you're not

im giving her advice based on knowing first hand what it feels like to be lied to...

small or big lies

doesnt matter

it still hurts

but if you dont mind hurting the people you care about

then its all good right?!:cheers2:

 

A date that she already said is going to involve mentioning she is not interested

Besides, who cares how it sounds, you can either believe her or not, call her a liar if you're going to say anything bad.

P.S.
It's not like shes married or anything either guys.

 

:cheers2:

 

calling her a liar would be a bit extreme in this case. it's just one case of minor dishonesty.

i just don't see the point in going out on a first date with someone with the intention of breaking up with them during said date...

 

Thats different from saying she is going to be bitten in the ass by behaving in a way that you dont agree with

Yeah because im sure you tell everyone, everything, all the time.

Yeah im a zombie, i have no feelings, nor have i been lied to or betrayed in my entire life, my opinion is based purely from texts on social interaction

Yeah of course, because she's being such a mega bitch, that there is no way her boyfriend will survive the emotional scars that are going to result from this

I dont really want to make this personal, because you're a real person, and i cant say that this reflects your true self, nor if it did, makes you a terrible person. Having said that, i think your full of hippie, preacher bullshit.